Die Toiletten auf den A6-Raststätten bei Münsingen wurden geschlossen, weil sie beliebte Orte für schnellen Sex unter Männern waren. Wie das abläuft, erzählt einer, der auf Raststätten verkehrt.

Einer der Rastplätze im Raum Zürich, der als Treff für schnellen Sex angepriesen wird.

Die beiden WC-Anlagen in Münsingen wurden nun geschlossen. Auf anderen Raststätten der Schweiz ist hingegen immer noch viel los – der anonyme Sex unter Männern ein ungebrochenes Bedürfnis. Vereinzelt finden sich auch Frauen an diesen Treffpunkten.

Robbie* (55), gelernter Koch aus der Ostschweiz, ist homosexuell und verkehrt seit Jahren in der Szene. Auf Raststätten geht er vor allem im Sommer, bei schönem Wetter und mit neuen Bekanntschaften. «Ich verabrede mich mit Männern in einem Gaychat und treffe diese dann dort», erzählt er 20 Minuten.

Die Toiletten auf den Raststätten sagen ihm gar nicht zu, «zu schmutzig», er weicht eher auf die Wäldchen in der Nähe der Raststätten aus. Sei man ausser Sichtweite, gehe es dann zur Sache. «Natürlich machen wir das immer so, dass uns Spaziergänger nicht sehen können, denn Kinder sollten das nicht zu Gesicht kriegen», sagt Robbie.

1. This spontaneous threesome:

„A guy once gave me his number out of the blue at a restaurant. A few weeks later I was bored and horny (and a little stoned) so I called him. He invited me over to his place to watch porn with him and his roommate. It wasn’t long before we were all in bed having a threesome. I’m happily married to a woman now, but I’m glad I did that back then. It was fun and it felt good.

„You don’t have to be gay to enjoy playing with a dick at some point!“

 1. This spontaneous threesome:

2. This fleeting moment of experimentation:

„I was in a weird place after a messy breakup with a long-term girlfriend when I was about 24. I don’t really know how or why I started, but I began watching and getting off to gay porn. The thing is, outside of watching porn, I don’t find men attractive at all. I have never checked out or noticed another man in a real-life situation, but I can completely fantasize about it if I’m watching gay porn.

„So after a few months of regularly getting off to gay porn I decided to seek out an opportunity to experiment and met with a guy in a parking lot of a local store. We went for a short drive and talked for a few minutes and I started backing out so he took me back to my car. We pulled up beside my car and he gave a last shot at keeping things going and asked if I just wanted to try holding his dick, and I agreed. He took it out and I started giving him a hand job, which lasted about a minute before I just went for it and started blowing him. I blew him for a few minutes in his car and then we decided I’d jump in my car and follow him back to his place just a few minutes away. We got to his house and I got back to sucking his dick on his couch, and he got my shorts off and rubbed my dick some while I blew him.

„After a few minutes he wanted to switch and go down on me, that’s when everything sort of hit. He was really excited to blow me, but I wasn’t the least bit hard and nothing he was doing was making it happen. I was just over it at this point — told him I was sorry but I needed to go, and bailed quickly. I felt bad ditching the guy. He seemed nice enough, but I had my moment of experimentation and realized it wasn’t what I was into.“

 2. This fleeting moment of experimentation:

5. This whiskey-drinking date:

„My first hookup with a guy was a few years ago with a guy I met on Whisper. I’d been curious for a while before this happened. He identifies as gay. We drank some whiskey and one thing led to another and we ended up sucking each other’s dicks and making out for a while.“

 5. This whiskey-drinking date:

6. These hand jobs between BFFs:

„I considered myself totally hetero at the time. I was hanging out with my BFF since fourth grade, who’s gay. We were probably both 19 or so. On two occasions, we put on some porn, starting masturbating, then gave each other (very excellent) hand jobs. I enjoyed the hell out of it until he came, and was freaked out/grossed out by encountering another dude’s semen. I never even considered getting involved with another guy for years after, and am happily married to a woman. But as I’ve gotten older and shed some cultural baggage, I’ve allowed myself to be attracted to men, and would totally date/sleep with the right guy.

„It was a very positive experience; I learned a lot about myself and LGBT issues, and the guy is still my BFF.“

 6. These hand jobs between BFFs:

9. This not-entirely-great first time:

„I was 18 and just lost my virginity to a girl. I had always wondered if I was actually gay, so I started looking at both genders on Tinder. I matched with a 22-year-old guy and we ended up having sex in the woods near his house. He was actually really strange and I didn’t feel comfortable about it at all. I’ve hooked up and had sex with other guys since then, but always in a period of severe loneliness. I’m not really sure I’m gay, but I’m probably not entirely straight either. Looking back on it, I don’t regret all of my male sexual experiences, but the first one has always left me feeling a bit disgusted with myself.“

10. This frat party with a happy ending:

„During my second semester in college, I ended up moving out of the dorms and into the apartment of a friend I had from a fraternity I was in. I kind of sensed that he was attracted to me, but I never paid any mind to it. Everyone was pretty sure he was gay, but none of that mattered. I myself was known for sleeping around, and I was in an on-and-off relationship, but never considered myself gay.

„One night, we had a small party at our place, with people coming and going all night. Things got wild, and I ended up trashed. Everyone did.

„Everyone ended up leaving, and I went to my room to wind down. My roommate ended up stumbling into my room and landed on my bed. I just laid there and blew it off. He started getting handsy, and I immediately knew where this was going. He told me to relax, and I was pretty horny anyways. He ended up giving me a blowjob, and it was completely mind-blowing. We ended up doing things the rest of the time I lived with him. I eventually reciprocated, but we never did anything aside from oral or masturbation.

„Looking back, I have no regrets about any of it. I don’t think it defined my sexuality, because I still identify as straight. It was a good experience, and I wouldn’t change anything.“

11. This hookup after a buddy came out as bi:

„When I was 13, one of my best friends told me he was bi. Later that night at his house, we were watching a movie and he started playing with my crotch with his feet, and ended up unzipping my pants. He asked if he could give me a blowjob and I said sure. He did, but I couldn’t give one to him because it was too weird for me at the time. That was my first sexual experience in general, let alone man-on-man experience. I didn’t end up having sex with a girl until I was 18, five years after that gay experience.“

12. This ~ride~ home:

„One of my high school best friends is gay. One time I gave him a ride home and he jokingly said, ‚I’d offer to blow you but my tits are in the shop.‘ I was 18 and probably just hearing ‚tits‘ was enough to get me hard. So I unzipped my pants and took my dick out kind of joking, kind of not. He started sucking and I kept driving until we got close to his house and he told me to pull over and I blew my load in his mouth and then he said he was going to eat my ass. He got out of the car, walked around to the driver’s side and opened my door. I got out and leaned onto my car and he ate my ass for a long time. This was on a suburban cul-de-sac (he loves puns so maybe that was part of his plan). Anyway it was unreal. It felt so good my legs were shaking. I kinda came again but there wasn’t much and he said, ‚You don’t have any more for me?‘ And I thought that was so hot that someone wanted my cum that much.

„I finished driving him home and stayed up all night kind of grossed out, but not? Also I’m embarrassed to admit I worried about AIDS. I was so nervous to see him at school. But he claimed not to remember anything ’cause he was drunk. He wasn’t that drunk though. Nothing like that has happened since.

„We’re still friends; he’ll be a groomsman in my wedding next year. No girl has ever offered to eat my ass. I’ve met a few of his boyfriends and wonder if my dick is bigger than theirs. This all makes me sound pretty gay but I’m really not.“

13. This longtime friendship with benefits:

„We were friends that had known each other since first grade. About the time we were 10 or 11, we changed in front of each other and started to compare body parts. The two of us comparing body parts continued to grow, and as we grew into our adolescent years we began feeling each other, experimented with hand jobs, blow jobs, and we ended up going all the way. We were each other’s firsts for everything sexually speaking, and it started out as just being curious and figuring out what felt good sexually.

„My friend and I still remain friends to this day. While we were experimenting, we would both talk about what we were doing with each other, and say that we both liked girls and didn’t feel gay, but we were confused about why we would always do homosexual things with each other. He was the only guy I have ever hooked up with, and as far as I know, I was the only dude he’s hooked up with. The sexual things we did together stopped soon after high school, and we haven’t brought it up since.“

14. This epic blow job that has you wondering if you’re straight after all:

„Me and my friends were out at the pub last Wednesday, and we miiiiight have drunk a bit too much. One thing led to another and we were talking about how long it had been since each of us had sex. We joked about giving each other blowjobs, and one of my friends happened to be gay. He leaned over and whispered he was going to give me the best blowjob of my life. Because I was so drunk, we went to the bathroom together. I have to say it was a pretty good blowjob.

16. This effective stress-relief strategy:

„For me it happens spontaneously when stressed. I go through most of my life not even considering gay sex, then I get some kind of stress, usually work-related. Next thing I know I’m literally bumping into guys cruising for sex and I’m almost on gay autopilot. Afterwards I usually feel less stressed but guilty as well.“

17. This visit to a gay spa:

„I’ve never been attracted to men, but I was curious for a long time about what it’d be like to play with another person’s cock. Eventually I ended up visiting a gay spa and sucking off some random guy through a gloryhole.

„I think my strongest memories were of being surprised at how warm his cock was and how strongly I could feel his pulse through it. I also had variations of ‚I can’t believe I’m doing this‘ running through my head for most of the time, but that just made it better in a strange way.

„Basically, it was a fun experience. It didn’t teach me anything about my sexuality that I didn’t already know, but it certainly satisfied my curiosity.“

Abstract

Surprisingly little is known about how young gay men structure their sexual behavior in the era of AIDS. This research examines the sexual stories told by 30 White and Latino gay men between the ages of 18 and 24 based on data collected from semistructured interviews. Four dominant sexual scripts (romantic love, erotic adventures, safer sex, and sexual coercion) frame their sexual experiences. These stories illustrate how gay male youth use and adapt gendered sexual scripts encountered in particular social, cultural, and situational contexts. The author examines how interpersonal dynamics, social contexts, and masculinities shape and constrain their sexual experiences. The findings suggest new approaches to studying sexualities based on wedding sexual scripts and queer and gender theories, and accounting for agency and constraint. Directions for HIV-prevention policy-making in light of these newly revealed sexualities conclude this article.

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