18 Types of Sex All Gay Men Should Try At Least Once in their Lifetime

There are so many different ways guys have sex with each other. There’s a lot in between the two extremes of making love to the man of your life, and having a raunchy, anonymous hookup in a bathhouse.

So here are 18 types of sex all gay/bi men should experience (at least once) at some point in their lives!

Ohhhh, that first time you’re with a guy. You’re nervous. You’re confused. It feels so right, yet you think it’s so wrong. All the shame, joy, confusion, and pleasure amalgamating to create an overwhelming emotional overload.

For many of us, the first experience we had with a man wasn’t great. Odds are, we didn’t actually like them that much. (If you did, you’re lucky!) So the first time you have sex with a man you really like (maybe even love) is a pretty phenomenal experience. You think to yourself, „Wow. This is it.“

In my humble opinion, I think this is a rite of passage for every gay man. I think we all need to have some form of cruisy, bathhouse, and/or park experience. The fearful rush is unlike anything you’ve experimented with before.

If you’re like me, the first time you bottomed you did not get what the fuss was about. I was clenching, hadn’t cleaned properly, and honestly had no idea what to do. I also remember being in a lot of pain. A few tries later, when you learn to relax, you finally get what the whole fuss is about, and it starts to feel really, really good.

The first time you have sex with someone who’s f*cking great. He’s sexy. He’s energetic. He knows how to move. And he has you thinking, „What type of garbage sex have I been having for the past X years?“

Who needs Ambien when you have Grindr, am I right? Those nights where you’re having trouble falling asleep, so you invite a guy over. Forty-five minutes later, you’re passed out. Sleeping like a baby.

In order to have sex with a man the first few times, many of us had to get to a point of severe inebriation. It’s obviously very different, and a lot more special, when you first have sex with a man sober.

Makin’ love to the man you love. Life really doesn’t get much better than that.

He smacks your butt hard, or he rests his hands on your throat, applying a little pressure. Your heart speeds up. You feel the rush of exploring something a little kinkier, a little more intense.

Honestly, I think everyone should experience a threesome at least once, at some point in their life. We all need to learn what the fuss is about, and why two heads (pun intended) are better than one.

Summer camp is literally the most homoerotic space to have ever existed. Just a bunch of hormonal guys, some closeted, some straight, but all confused about their sexuality, bunking together and exploring each other’s bodies.

When you get to experience drunk sex that’s actually amazing. You somehow have more energy and feel like a goddamn rock star. Everything feels so good.

That drunk sex that is absolutely awful. We’ve all had it. (Some of us more than we care to admit.) You can’t get hard. You feel gross. Your bodies don’t seem to be connecting at all. Literally, the worst. You might be asking why I think every gay men should experience this. Fair question! I think it’s important for us to have a couple mediocre sexual experiences, so we can appreciate the good ones.

There’s something unbelievably hot about having sex with someone in a foreign country. (When it’s a local in that county, that makes it even better.) Not sure why this is the case, but man-oh-man, it is.

When you sleep with a guy who’s 20 years your senior, and you’re like, „Woah, practice DOES make perfect!“

When 20 years later the tables have turned, and you’re showing the ropes to a newly out gay/bi man, helping him live out his daddy fantasy.

It’s another rite of passage that will inevitably happen. What do you expect? You’re poking around in someone’s butt. The first time this happens you’re definitely a little freaked out. But by the 10th time, you literally could not care less.

Had to end the slideshow on an uplifting note! It’s not even the physical act of sex that’s good; it’s the fact that you’re doing it with the man you love. It’s pure intimacy.

Hot Legs (Short Gay Film)

Short Film produced by Underdog Productions (Pty) Ltd in 1995.

Note: This film contains some male nudity, contains material of a gay nature, and may be disturbing to younger viewers. It also contains some fast flash shots.

Written & Directed by Luiz DeBarossProduced by: Marc Schwinges

Starring:Tim: David DucasDave: Gerrie BarnardTim Jnr: Glen FineDave Jnr: Leon WeedKid One: Miguel BarrosKid Tow: Marcus MuddPoliceman One: Carlo GoertzPoliceman Two: Criag KellyMother: Mariana CarrilloSon: Sipho Khuzwago Moyo

Director of Photography: Peter PohorskyProduction Manager: Brendan RiceProduction Assistant: David HeckerFocus Puller: Greg PoissonGrip: Tony Slater

Sound: Jeremy HattinghSound: Ian MillerBoom Operator: Sean Kelly

Senior Make-up Artist: Adrienne CohenMake-Up Artist: Ionka Nel

Runners: Wayne Fick, Paul Hanrahan, Hal Couzens, Bronwyn Vermeulen, Oliver Galloway.

Post Production Advisor: Hal CouzensNon-Liner Editor: Llewelyn Roderick

Executive Producers: Marc Schwinges, Catherine Bester & Charlotte Bauer

Hot Legs (Short Gay Film)

The best gay sex positions: How do gay men have sex?

As anyone who’s ever had gay sex, thought about gay sex or watched gay sex will know there are endless combinations possible gay sex positions. But where to start? What feels best? How do you gay men have sex?

This guide to the four most accessible – and we reckon most pleasurable – gay sex positions will help get you started.

Before we get stuck into how to stick it in, we’d always condone safer sex and recommend you read our guide to PrEP, and always use condoms when having sex.

The best gay sex positions: How do gay men have sex?

How to have anal sex: Steps for gay men

If having anal sex was as easy as it appears in gay porn, I’d probably do it every day. However, there is more to it and gay men (women too) need to understand how to have anal sex.

It wasn’t until my mid-20s that I got truly comfortable with anal. When I was younger (I’m still in my very very late 20s, or very early 30s before you ask), I had some really painful experiences as a bottom, and some scarily messy experiences as a top.

During gay sex, whether you’re topbottomversatile or have no idea (we’ll cover this another time), planning, practice, preparation and communication are all vital when taking it up the rear. I wish I knew what I know now, when I was younger. But now I know plenty. We’ve got this sorted. Here’s how to have anal sex.

How to have anal sex: Steps for gay men

Why straight men are going ‘gay for pay’ on camera

GAY porn stars who identify as straight are a common phenomenon. So why are they making careers out of having sex with other men? GRAPHIC.

Curtis was straight, but as a struggling new graduate in fast-paced San Diego, it was a tempting idea.

“They made it real comfortable,” he says. “It was just, come back here, here’s the studio, get naked. I’d never been naked in front of anybody other than me and a girlfriend … when you have three or four people with cameras, it’s pretty nerve-racking.

“Eventually the cameras just disappear. Pretty much just like jerking off at home is what it turned out to be.”

Curtis was emphatic that he would not do a sex scene. But soon enough, the chance to make even more money became too enticing.

“I thought about it a bit, experimented at home and was like, well that ain’t too bad, I can do that and come back with a pocketful of money, that’d be great.

“They let me top the first sex scene I did just to ease me into it. They’re not doing that much any more.”

Like most straight men in the industry, Curtis started out with solo masturbation scenes, and graduated to hardcore

Curtis’ experience may sound extreme, but it’s a common phenomenon. At least half of all male gay porn stars identify as straight, according to Charlie David, a director from Montreal, Canada, who’s made a documentary on the subject.

, which is released internationally on Tuesday, explores why straight men would have sex with other men, and why there’s such a huge market for it.

Popular gay porn websites including (where Curtis works), , and all offer movies proudly featuring straight actors.

“You’re seeing hypermasculine situations or sometimes professions, a construction worker and so on,” David told

“It’s not only subconscious cues, it’s promoted as this by the studios: ‘Look at these straight guy f**k!’”

David became aware of the trend for heterosexuals to “go gay” for parts after he appeared in LGBT-orientated supernatural soap ) and porn.

“A lot of the main [gay porn] studios’ producers are straight men or women,” he said. “It’s interesting because there’s such a stigma against LGBT people in many places. Calling somebody gay is often used as a derogatory comment.”

So what’s the appeal for these actors and the viewers? And can the performers really call themselves straight?

Gay porn studios promote their stars as straight, and websites like treat it as a niche

Curtis says the fact he began enjoying the feeling caused him confusion about his

The number one reason straight men do gay porn is cold, hard cash, says David.

Gay porn stars can earn $4000 to $5000 for a just an eight-hour day’s work, or a shoot over a weekend. It’s far more than their male counterparts in straight porn can make, and more than most 20-somethings earn in a month.

It’s also flexible, in more ways than just the obvious. Stars may work one weekend a month, and spend the rest of the time socialising, going to the gym and holidaying.

“In straight porn, the guys might only make a couple of hundred bucks,” says David. “The motivations are seen as different, that they want to do it anyway. The financial aspect isn’t there unless you’re a name.”

Plus, most heterosexual porn focuses on women’s bodies, with the plethora of lesbian scenes performed by straight female actors seen as far less controversial.

For some heterosexual gay porn stars, there’s also an element of curiosity, David’s documentary reveals.

They can explore their sexuality while justifying it as simply a way to earn money. The director thinks that logic requires some “mental gymnastics”. Anyone questioning their identity might be safer doing it away from a camera, particularly in the age of the internet.

Others are relaxed about being on a spectrum. They’re exhibitionists who enjoy the attention and like creating a fanbase.

“For many of them, they’re in otherwise monogamous relationships with women who support or even encourage that they do this,” adds David.

Documentary director Charlie David asks whether the reason gay porn audiences fetishise hypermasculinity is because of internalised

So why are so many gay men watching? “Are we being fed something,” asks David. “Or is that where the hunger is?”

He believes the genre’s popularity suggests an “internalised homophobia” in the gay community, where men who talk and act in a feminine manner are a turn-off.

David also thinks it’s surprising because the gay community is always trying to fight the stereotype that homosexual men are chasing straight men or trying to “convert” them.

Porn star Eddie Stone, a genuine gay actor, says he was intrigued at the opportunity to have sex with straight men, but found it was much the same as doing a scene with another gay man.

Unlike many of the heterosexual gay porn stars in the documentary, he doesn’t believe any 100 per cent straight man would have sex with another man on camera.

He also thinks the market is here to stay. “Gay men like to see a man who identifies as straight, so is off limits, naked and having sex with a man. It’s a taboo, the unattainable,” he said.

“The gay community loves watching straight men in gay porn.”

But when the roles dry up, it’s unclear what comes next for a gay porn

You can go into the production side, get more extreme or quit, with your photo all over the internet for

Most gay porn stars are aged from 18 to the early 30s. After that, some will successfully make the move to the business side of the industry, but others find themselves lost as the work dries up.

“These guys are a product,” says David. “They can be overexposed and people lose interest, you’re last season’s fashion.

“Then what do you do? Your image is out there, where do you transition to? It does put a limit on your career trajectory.”

The 36-year-old found most straight men in gay porn describe a similar progression, from solo scenes, to blow jobs and hand jobs with another man, to sex as a “top” and then all types of sex scenes. With each level, actors are rewarded with a major bump in their pay.

But David warns there’s “the other side of the ladder,” when you’re no longer hot property and your earnings start to disintegrate. “You can either do wilder, more fetishised and outlandish things to maintain your salary, or go down.”

For many, there’s also a psychological and emotional toll. “I think it would be very challenging for anyone to do this kind of work without reflection,” says David.

That was certainly true for Curtis. Once he “got used to the feeling” he began liking it, and that made him question his sexuality.

“There was a lot of confusion going on in my head,” he says. “I thought I might be gay for enjoying it. I realised the feeling is everybody, all men enjoy prostate stimulation. I went from thinking I was gay to being bisexual. Really it’s just I’m straight, I like the prostate stimulation part of it and that’s pretty much all there is to it.

“I don’t find men attractive, I don’t get into relationships, I like women. But coming out here to have gay sex is not a bad thing to get paid for.

“I would classify myself as being straight but enjoying gay sex.”

Why straight men are going ‘gay for pay’ on camera

These erotic images are available for purchase and benefit the Elton John AIDS Foundation.

BOYS! BOYS! BOYS! is a new book edited by Ghislain Pascal and published by teNeues and Mendo. It presents a contemporary collection of queer and gay photography, full of variety, power, and intensity. It features more than 50 queer and gay photographers from more than 20 countries. All royalties from the book are going to the Elton John AIDS Foundation. It coincides with the launch of new online art platform  — the home of queer and gay photography.

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„A Portrait of Lemmie with Green Velvet“ © David Charles Collins

Anal sex positions

Most of these gay sex positions are anal sex positions, but there are some non-penetrative sexual positions at the end too.

If you’re after more anal sex reading, here’s another general guide on how to have anal sex that covers douching, communication, lube and some other stuff.

Top, bottom or versatile?

We’re going to look at gay sex positions from the point of view of a top and a bottom.

If you’re versatile (and we encourage you all to be), lucky you, you can do both. In some gay sex positions the top leads the action, and in some the bottom takes the lead.

Interested in finding out why some guys are top and some are bottom? Here’s a scientific study from 2017 that talks about it.

Try the gay missionary position first

This gay sex position may sound boring, but it’s not, we promise. It’s one of the easiest positions for a top, and not especially difficult for a bottom.

During gay sex, if you’re engaging in foreplay and sucking his cock while he’s laying down, keep licking, kissing and sucking as you move your mouth down towards his balls.

Then go further, toward his perineum (the bit between his balls and his ass) and then his butthole.

Bottom: if you’re enjoying this, give him a few moans and wriggle your asshole a bit closer to where his tongue is.

If he’s keen, keep eating his ass. Open his ass cheeks and get in there deep with your tongue. If you can, and body shapes and sizes depend on this, lift his ass up a bit.

Seeing eye to eye

The gay missionary position is good for maintaining eye contact and clear communication during anal sex.

You can penetrate your partner slowly and carefully, keeping an eye on the target. You can build up a momentum that you’re both comfortable with. And it’s easy to get back in if you slip out, because you can see everything clearly.

Now try riding a guy’s cock

If you’re new to getting f**ked, or nervous about taking a big dick, this gay sex position could be good for you, because as a bottom, you’ll have the control.

It’s a good one for gaining confidence when it comes to taking cock – if it starts to hurt, you can slow down, and lower yourself onto him at your own pace.

You need a certain amount of athleticism to be able to ride your man. You want to be going up and down, and slightly back and forth, at the same time. A bit like riding a horse.

If you’re bigger built than your top, or if you’re a bigger guy in general this one can be tricky as gravity is against you. Be careful not to crush the chap under you or he’ll be at risk of losing his erection.

39 Sex Toys Every Gay Man Should Try

I’ll be honest guys, I did not enjoy sex toys when I first came on the scene. I was a freshman in college, brand new to sex, and all my friends, left and right, were exploring their anal pleasures with dildos. “It helps you get used to the feeling,” one guy told me in his dorm room. “I go at my own speed so that when the real thing comes, I’m ready.”

Our hopes were soon met. I started college a few months after Grindr hit the app store. We all quickly discovered sex via the glowing orange icons on our phones. This was my initial understanding of toys: They were ass-trainers, a second-hand way of experiencing the “real thing,” and no matter how nice they were, they were inferior to flesh and blood. I believed “sex toys” for gay men stopped at dildos and prostate stimulators, and I did not consider them legitimate sex play all on their own.

[RELATED: „30 Kinky Terms Every Gay Man Needs to Know“]

In the years since, I have learned that there are many gay sex toys out there beyond anal toys, although these are certainly the majority, and anal toys toys are more than substitutions for penises. Some toys, like the Ass Hammer (see #28), deliver mind-blowing sensations that a penis simply cannot replicate. Nothing will ever replace traditional sex — sex toys simply expand the experiential buffet of sexual pleasure to its true, limitless margin.

As you begin your toy sexploration, you will find that, although there are endless naughty novelty stores in the world, good toys are surprisingly hard to find. You could scour the Internet or make expensive pilgrimages to your nearest big city to visit a sexual retailer catered exclusively to gay men — nearly every big city has one — or you could start with this list of 39 sex toys you have to try, some of which are for beginners and others for seasoned adventurists. Welcome to Toyland, and enjoy the ride.

9. Thug Double Fucker

Blessed be the three men that first discovered double penetration — DP is one of the greatest gifts that gay men have been given. But if you’re trying to have a two-person, monogamous relationship, or if you are not quite ready to be double-fucked by two guys, try this toy. It would probably fall into the sex toy category of “cock extenders,” although it does not extend or expand the top’s penis. Rather, it attaches a dildo to his dick and gives you the opportunity to “take two” without a third man present. Oxballs makes some of the world’s best anal toys, great for all us pigs into extreme ass play. 

39. Sex Music

This may be a surprising cap to this list — no one ever talks about tunes as a sexual enhancer. Background music not only sets the mood, but it is also one of the cheapest sexual accoutrements you will buy, and certainly one of the most effective.

Mr. S Leather sells album mixes from one of the North American leather world’s favorite DJs, M. Arana, who has been a repeat guest at the Folsom Street Fair and DJed the San Francisco Leather Ball, the Mr. Fire Island Leather Contest, the Mr. East Coast Rubber Contest in New York, and other sexually-charged events. His mixes sound like darkrooms and play areas and immediately make you feel nasty. And much to my surprise, his albums are available on iTunes alongside other sex music-makers like Tony Barre and the old-school Butt Boy (known for tracks like “Phallidance” and “The Sling”).

If you’re looking for something that sounds less like a dungeon and more like a dance club, try the young LA-based EDM artist TR/ST — his sexed-up, mopey tracks like “Are We Arc?” on his recent album Joyland are great for a relaxed fisting session. 

Hungry for more? Don’t miss „36 Fetishes Every Gay Man Should Know“ and „30 Kinky Terms Every Gay Man Needs to Know.“

Safer sex with condoms

Keep a few condoms in your wallet, or in the drawer next to your bed. Keeping them on the bedside table sends a clear message that you’re into safer sex.

Or, it might make you look like you’re f**king every man that catches your eye (you lucky bugger), which might put off a potential boyfriend compared to a casual hook-up, so use your judgement.

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1. This spontaneous threesome:

„A guy once gave me his number out of the blue at a restaurant. A few weeks later I was bored and horny (and a little stoned) so I called him. He invited me over to his place to watch porn with him and his roommate. It wasn’t long before we were all in bed having a threesome. I’m happily married to a woman now, but I’m glad I did that back then. It was fun and it felt good.

„You don’t have to be gay to enjoy playing with a dick at some point!“

2. This fleeting moment of experimentation:

„I was in a weird place after a messy breakup with a long-term girlfriend when I was about 24. I don’t really know how or why I started, but I began watching and getting off to gay porn. The thing is, outside of watching porn, I don’t find men attractive at all. I have never checked out or noticed another man in a real-life situation, but I can completely fantasize about it if I’m watching gay porn.

„So after a few months of regularly getting off to gay porn I decided to seek out an opportunity to experiment and met with a guy in a parking lot of a local store. We went for a short drive and talked for a few minutes and I started backing out so he took me back to my car. We pulled up beside my car and he gave a last shot at keeping things going and asked if I just wanted to try holding his dick, and I agreed. He took it out and I started giving him a hand job, which lasted about a minute before I just went for it and started blowing him. I blew him for a few minutes in his car and then we decided I’d jump in my car and follow him back to his place just a few minutes away. We got to his house and I got back to sucking his dick on his couch, and he got my shorts off and rubbed my dick some while I blew him.

„After a few minutes he wanted to switch and go down on me, that’s when everything sort of hit. He was really excited to blow me, but I wasn’t the least bit hard and nothing he was doing was making it happen. I was just over it at this point — told him I was sorry but I needed to go, and bailed quickly. I felt bad ditching the guy. He seemed nice enough, but I had my moment of experimentation and realized it wasn’t what I was into.“

5. This whiskey-drinking date:

„My first hookup with a guy was a few years ago with a guy I met on Whisper. I’d been curious for a while before this happened. He identifies as gay. We drank some whiskey and one thing led to another and we ended up sucking each other’s dicks and making out for a while.“

6. These hand jobs between BFFs:

„I considered myself totally hetero at the time. I was hanging out with my BFF since fourth grade, who’s gay. We were probably both 19 or so. On two occasions, we put on some porn, starting masturbating, then gave each other (very excellent) hand jobs. I enjoyed the hell out of it until he came, and was freaked out/grossed out by encountering another dude’s semen. I never even considered getting involved with another guy for years after, and am happily married to a woman. But as I’ve gotten older and shed some cultural baggage, I’ve allowed myself to be attracted to men, and would totally date/sleep with the right guy.

„It was a very positive experience; I learned a lot about myself and LGBT issues, and the guy is still my BFF.“

9. This not-entirely-great first time:

„I was 18 and just lost my virginity to a girl. I had always wondered if I was actually gay, so I started looking at both genders on Tinder. I matched with a 22-year-old guy and we ended up having sex in the woods near his house. He was actually really strange and I didn’t feel comfortable about it at all. I’ve hooked up and had sex with other guys since then, but always in a period of severe loneliness. I’m not really sure I’m gay, but I’m probably not entirely straight either. Looking back on it, I don’t regret all of my male sexual experiences, but the first one has always left me feeling a bit disgusted with myself.“

10. This frat party with a happy ending:

„During my second semester in college, I ended up moving out of the dorms and into the apartment of a friend I had from a fraternity I was in. I kind of sensed that he was attracted to me, but I never paid any mind to it. Everyone was pretty sure he was gay, but none of that mattered. I myself was known for sleeping around, and I was in an on-and-off relationship, but never considered myself gay.

„One night, we had a small party at our place, with people coming and going all night. Things got wild, and I ended up trashed. Everyone did.

„Everyone ended up leaving, and I went to my room to wind down. My roommate ended up stumbling into my room and landed on my bed. I just laid there and blew it off. He started getting handsy, and I immediately knew where this was going. He told me to relax, and I was pretty horny anyways. He ended up giving me a blowjob, and it was completely mind-blowing. We ended up doing things the rest of the time I lived with him. I eventually reciprocated, but we never did anything aside from oral or masturbation.

„Looking back, I have no regrets about any of it. I don’t think it defined my sexuality, because I still identify as straight. It was a good experience, and I wouldn’t change anything.“

11. This hookup after a buddy came out as bi:

„When I was 13, one of my best friends told me he was bi. Later that night at his house, we were watching a movie and he started playing with my crotch with his feet, and ended up unzipping my pants. He asked if he could give me a blowjob and I said sure. He did, but I couldn’t give one to him because it was too weird for me at the time. That was my first sexual experience in general, let alone man-on-man experience. I didn’t end up having sex with a girl until I was 18, five years after that gay experience.“

12. This ~ride~ home:

„One of my high school best friends is gay. One time I gave him a ride home and he jokingly said, ‚I’d offer to blow you but my tits are in the shop.‘ I was 18 and probably just hearing ‚tits‘ was enough to get me hard. So I unzipped my pants and took my dick out kind of joking, kind of not. He started sucking and I kept driving until we got close to his house and he told me to pull over and I blew my load in his mouth and then he said he was going to eat my ass. He got out of the car, walked around to the driver’s side and opened my door. I got out and leaned onto my car and he ate my ass for a long time. This was on a suburban cul-de-sac (he loves puns so maybe that was part of his plan). Anyway it was unreal. It felt so good my legs were shaking. I kinda came again but there wasn’t much and he said, ‚You don’t have any more for me?‘ And I thought that was so hot that someone wanted my cum that much.

„I finished driving him home and stayed up all night kind of grossed out, but not? Also I’m embarrassed to admit I worried about AIDS. I was so nervous to see him at school. But he claimed not to remember anything ’cause he was drunk. He wasn’t that drunk though. Nothing like that has happened since.

„We’re still friends; he’ll be a groomsman in my wedding next year. No girl has ever offered to eat my ass. I’ve met a few of his boyfriends and wonder if my dick is bigger than theirs. This all makes me sound pretty gay but I’m really not.“

13. This longtime friendship with benefits:

„We were friends that had known each other since first grade. About the time we were 10 or 11, we changed in front of each other and started to compare body parts. The two of us comparing body parts continued to grow, and as we grew into our adolescent years we began feeling each other, experimented with hand jobs, blow jobs, and we ended up going all the way. We were each other’s firsts for everything sexually speaking, and it started out as just being curious and figuring out what felt good sexually.

„My friend and I still remain friends to this day. While we were experimenting, we would both talk about what we were doing with each other, and say that we both liked girls and didn’t feel gay, but we were confused about why we would always do homosexual things with each other. He was the only guy I have ever hooked up with, and as far as I know, I was the only dude he’s hooked up with. The sexual things we did together stopped soon after high school, and we haven’t brought it up since.“

14. This epic blow job that has you wondering if you’re straight after all:

„Me and my friends were out at the pub last Wednesday, and we miiiiight have drunk a bit too much. One thing led to another and we were talking about how long it had been since each of us had sex. We joked about giving each other blowjobs, and one of my friends happened to be gay. He leaned over and whispered he was going to give me the best blowjob of my life. Because I was so drunk, we went to the bathroom together. I have to say it was a pretty good blowjob.

16. This effective stress-relief strategy:

„For me it happens spontaneously when stressed. I go through most of my life not even considering gay sex, then I get some kind of stress, usually work-related. Next thing I know I’m literally bumping into guys cruising for sex and I’m almost on gay autopilot. Afterwards I usually feel less stressed but guilty as well.“

17. This visit to a gay spa:

„I’ve never been attracted to men, but I was curious for a long time about what it’d be like to play with another person’s cock. Eventually I ended up visiting a gay spa and sucking off some random guy through a gloryhole.

„I think my strongest memories were of being surprised at how warm his cock was and how strongly I could feel his pulse through it. I also had variations of ‚I can’t believe I’m doing this‘ running through my head for most of the time, but that just made it better in a strange way.

„Basically, it was a fun experience. It didn’t teach me anything about my sexuality that I didn’t already know, but it certainly satisfied my curiosity.“

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