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Gay Senior Dating with SilverSingles: Real Love

Are your over 50, single and gay? Gay senior dating has its own challenges, but online websites are fast changing the face of dating today. SilverSingles, one of the leading senior gay dating sites, is created for senior singles to connect and discover companionship, love and relationships. So how does it work?

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Getting back into dating and meeting a compatible partner can sometimes feel like a difficult undertaking. And gay senior dating does have something of a reputation for being a difficult domain to find a serious, long-term relationship. The gay dating scene, fairly or not, has been accused of frivolity at its best and ageism at its worst. So how do you go about meeting senior, gay singles who share your values and goals?

A key factor to finding the right people is finding the right community. The first step to putting yourself out there to meet singles who also want a lasting relationship is finding those singles! And that’s where SilverSingles comes in. Created for senior singles looking for authentic connections, the platform offers the opportunity to connect with real people looking for real relationships. And although meet-up groups and social networks are a great way to meet other senior gay singles, you don’t know who you will meet or what they are looking for. Enter SilverSingles, the intelligent option when hoping to meet your match on senior gay dating sites.

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Gay Senior Dating: Authentic Connections Today

Are you over 50, single and gay? Gay senior dating has its own challenges, but online websites are fast changing the face of dating today. SilverSingles, one of the leading senior gay dating sites, is created for senior singles to connect and discover companionship, love, and relationships. So, how does it work?

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According to an Urban Institute study, LGBTQ+ singles experienced a sexual victimization rate of 23.2%. That’s roughly 11% higher than the heterosexual rate. From outlandish statistics to negative experiences, one thing has become blatantly obvious: queer, transgender, and pansexual singles need their own space.

And that’s where LGBTQ+ dating apps come in. Providing an open, safe, and supportive arena for anyone to date anyone else in any way they please, these dating sites and apps are growing in popularity. With millions of members worldwide, LGBTQ+ dating apps cater to those who identify their gender and sexuality differently than the average heterosexual.

Making the Most of Senior Gay Dating Apps

One of the biggest perks of online dating today is the accessibility it provides to connect directly with a community of compatible singles. One of the easiest ways to do that is with dating apps directly on your smartphone. If you’re looking for gay dating apps with a difference, SilverSingles could be the best match for you.

Today, many popular gay dating apps have a reputation for frivolous fun rather than more serious relationships. It can be tough to meet someone who shares your preferences, lifestyle and is also looking for a long-term partner. And the truth is that it can get harder as you get older. And this is where SilverSingles comes in. As a dating site focused on over 50s dating, it offers more mature singles a platform to enjoy serious, senior gay dating! A PEW research study found that online dating has surged in popularity for the 50+ market in the past few years, so you’ll be in good company with lots of singles your age with similar interests.

If you’re frustrated by endlessly scrolling and swiping without getting anywhere, SilverSingles can change your online dating experience. Easy to navigate and use, you can download it for Android or Apple smartphones and access your profile on your phone or tablet. Our dating app offers you all the same features and benefits the desktop version does, giving you the best of both worlds in the palm of your hand.

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Online dating is a challenge for everyone. A lot of pressure comes with keeping up a conversation with someone you don’t know anything about (other than the fact that they are hot) — if you even had the patience to swipe or scroll enough to find someone worth chatting with, that is.

What Grindr Taught Me About Dating Older Men

We had about twenty minutes before he had to leave for the airport. The image I had conjured of the thirty-two-year-old currently en route to my front door from our meager interaction on Grindr was as telling as a police report: an assumed age, height, and weight, as well as one scrupulously selected profile picture. And often enough, the photo too ended up a rough sketch. These physical characteristics as well as a few words – “What are you into?” – were all that had been exchanged between me and this city planner from Washington D.C.

This was last summer when I had just turned twenty-two, fresh off the boat from flirting with my first serious relationship. I was seasick, and as this older man and I hit the sheets, I found that my body struggled to deliver what I had ordered.

When everything physical was said and done, we nestled in my bed together where I offered my condolences for my sexual underperformance. “I’m sorry, you’re just the first guy since my breakup,” I said. Confidently, he checked the time on his iPhone, which was perched on my nightstand and looked up at me. “Well, there’s good news and there’s bad news. Which do you want first?” he asked.

“The bad, always,” I responded. With texture, he said, “The bad news is that it won’t get any easier. Losing love. The good news is that you’ll get more used to the pain.”

The insight that this perfect stranger offered me resonated with me throughout the process of that first true heartbreak. And it dawned upon me: older gay men may hold some of the answers. These are people whose sex lives pre-date apps like Grindr or Scruff, and they may have even evaded the widespread millennial mentality of quickly finding something defective with a new lover, only to start brainlessly swiping again.

For me, older gay men came to symbolize the one thing more inspiring than heartbreak: rebirth. These guys had been through the emotional throes of dating, and ultimately, they had been able to fall in love again – even multiple times. I needed to know their secrets.

Dating back to pederasty in Ancient Greece, there has existed a sincere social bond between older gay men and male youth – perhaps in the form of today’s “bears” and “twinks” – where intimacy was mingled with the dispensing of emotional intellect. By all means, in Greek culture, this relationship was considered an education. But today, relationships between older gay men and younger gay men are seemingly plagued by peer judgment over presumptive motivations.

Admittedly, I have been one to shy away from intimate encounters with men much older than me in the past. Most of my gay cohort, as well as previous partners, had exposed their +/- four-year rule to me out of fear that they would be deemed “sugar babies” for taking interest in somebody markedly older. A lot of gay men around my age assume that older gay men, on the other hand, are mainly into younger gay men for the sex, perhaps so the youth can somehow rub off on them in bed like some heavy cologne. Still, many ask: “What really would you and an older man have in common?”

But that’s the whole point. Older gay men know things I don’t. If people undress the “ick” factor, isn’t this connection simply another ripe learning experience not dissimilar to one gained through relations with somebody of a matching age?

Today, online dating apps have intersected many gay men of differing ages and backgrounds. And though these apps may be seen as grassroots one-night stand delivery services, they also provide rich, rare inter-age experiences where younger and older gay men, already comfortable under the veil of physical intimacy, can communicate and dispense insight into the minefield that is the modern gay dating world.

Though I do often tend towards men my own age, I also love to reflect on the rhetoric I’ve heard from men who have been in the business a bit longer. Now, I see that long-term relationships are a plausible goal – and that they don’t necessarily have to be based on black-and-white monogamy. But with the little experience I have, that still somehow appeals the most.

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Gay dating is often thought to not be serious and imply no long-going intentions whatsoever. While for some men it can be true, for others such perspective only complicates the process of finding a partner which is not easy at all anyway. Gay dating sites and apps offer a chance to meet other gay guys, but will such relationship last? Not necessarily.

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What I Learned From Dating Older Gay Men

The director of Call Your Father says his attraction to older guys exposed a rarely discussed universal truth about gay men.

I never would have gotten to follow Laura Dern around a garden tour of Los Angeles’s Venice neighborhood if I hadn’t dated older men. So for that, I am thankful.

I didn’t say “hi” to her, but now I think I would have. I was 21 and vaguely dating a 50-year-old guy I had met through friends. We hooked up for the first time at a huge house party I had that was filled with other early- to mid-20s people. I lived in a cement basement that, for some reason, I had painted yellow. It truly was a bad-looking room, but we were both drunk, and I was too confident to know how insecure I was. So I was really charming that night.

He was into it. I’m not sure if I was into it. But he was handsome, and I knew from friends he was successful — at the time, anything above a yellow basement seemed really appealing. So we hooked up. It was drunk and fun. And someone walked in on us. I wondered how that must have felt to him. It seems so college to have someone walk in while you are hooking up during a party.

When I finally saw his house and his life, I could understand how getting caught sucking dick at a party with mostly Tecate being served would be appealing, or at least a change of pace. His life was set the fuck up. His ceilings must have been 30 feet high, and his parties had bartenders. When he invited me over the day of the garden tour, I think I not so subtly asked him what his parents did, because I couldn’t believe someone could have this home without family money. I still don’t understand how people make that kind of money — but at 21, I really didn’t.

That day was very nice. He indulged me by following Laura Dern around instead of looking at the gardens, which was definitely not the first time she had been stalked by gay men at a garden party. Afterward, we had wine with some of his straight friends. They were cozy and nice to me, but there was obviously an air of “Why did my 50-year-old friend invite a 21-year-old to my home and expect me to treat him like a person?”

By the end of the day I had done something uncharacteristic for me at that time: I asked him about his life instead of talking about mine. What were the hardest years? When did he get real? When did he make money? Twenty years after becoming successful, what did it feel like now? I gathered my information, came, and then went home to my basement. We maybe hung out romantically once more after that, but then it faded in a natural way. I still see him around sometimes, and he’s lovely. This kind of thing happened a couple dozen more times in my early 20s.

When I started writing my short film Call Your Father, I wanted to not just write commentary on gay men, but I also wanted to figure out why I was consistently drawn to guys around that age. A huge theme in all my work is confidence. I think it’s something gay men don’t talk about enough. From the moment you realize as a gay man who you are, whether it’s a challenging process or not, you know (maybe subconsciously) that a lot of the world hates you. Some want you dead.

I wasn’t bullied that badly, and my parents were cool, but deep down I knew I was hated. I knew it was harder for me to get what I wanted, and a lot of that was self-inflicted. I didn’t think I deserved what I knew I wanted.

What I was doing in my early 20s, by dating older men, was showing myself that maybe there was hope. That someday I could make some money and be successful and create a life for myself, just like these older men. I didn’t really believe it, but being around it made me think that I’d be more likely to get it.

It didn’t help, I don’t think. I’m glad I did it, and I met some great men, but it didn’t really help me believe in myself. It wasn’t reassurance I needed. It was a genuine sense of confidence from the inside. And developing that is a slow process that I’m still working on. Most gay men never reach the end of this process, and many never start.

Both characters in Call Your Father struggle deeply with confidence — a struggle on one side manifesting itself in real mental health issues and on the other manifesting in a lack of connection to the world and himself.

The gay confidence issue is both sad and interesting to me. I think it’s what makes gay men so beautiful but also troubling. I guess if we were completely self-assured, we would just be straight men who had sex with men. A wavering confidence is part of our culture, and of course, I’d like to keep working on mine. But maybe there is a stopping point. I never want to be so confident that I am making Planet of the Apes movies. Unless they are starring Laura Dern. I think I could do well with that.

JORDAN FIRSTMAN is the director of Call Your Father, a short film about an intergenerational gay date. He is also a staff writer on TBS’s Search Party. Watch the short below.

Eight Social Networking Sites for Men Who Love Men

We were contacted today by the founder of the soon to launch social network for gay men . It lead us to take a look around the gay male online social networking space and write the following overview of some of the current market leaders.

Niche social networks are likely a viable business because they allow specialized functionality and a subjective community feel as opposed to general interest sites that defer to either the lowest common denominator or the 15-25 year old demographic. Many people want to participate in social networks, but many people prefer networks set up for people they can relate to. That makes sense to me. From the proudly professional to the happily hedonistic, there may be something on this list for everyone – or at least everyone who’s a gay man.

As you can see by the following short profiles, these sites targeting a demographic with two traits in common (gay men) are all very different. Just as there’s a wide diversity of gay men in the world, there may well be ample room for a variety of gay male social networking sites – presuming they are able to build sufficient critical mass for monetization and financial viability.

I won’t pretend to speak for gay men and I’m sure there are some sites I’m missing, but these appear to be the most talked about gay male social networking sites online. You can take or leave my reviews of them. Maybe they’ll be a look inside a niche market for some of our readers and maybe they’ll be links of love for others. I tried to note the ones where the guys were particularly hot.

Jake calls itself the world’s largest gay professional community. It’s very British. The company reports almost 30,000 members sending two million messages to each other over the past year and attending exclusive real world events together. Unlike others that discourage independent commercial activity, this site encourages users to advertise their own businesses and directly monetize their involvement with the site.

There’s a professional but stylish look and feel to Jake. Users are encouraged to use their real names and free accounts offer only two photos – one for yourself and one for your company’s logo for example.

Paid accounts are £10 per month. Paid members can access the dating section of the site, get more storage in their internal mailboxes, get priority invitations to real world events and bring guests, gain access to “business briefings” and a number of other things.

ManJam is probably the most widely discussed of all of these social networking sites. It calls itself “a unique social network” but in fact it’s just one of many similarly branded copycat sites from JuxMedia Ltd. ManJam offers listings for rooms and houses for rent or to live in rent-free. There are listings from all around the world. There are job and business listings, many of which are in the Middle East. There are personal profile listings with text and video comments enabled for members. Free membership gets users access to rental listing details, IM, video and audio messaging. There is also a mobile component to ManJam. Profiles on this site support transgendered identities.

Premium members get entries in any of the categories moved up to the top of their respective listings. Paid accounts are $20 per month, $42 per quarter or $90 per year. This site looks solid enough and usability is decent, though I did get one 404. It doesn’t have the upper class affects of but ManJam is hardly for low baggers either. If hot unclothed chests are what you are looking for then ManJam may be where you want to go. Ohlalaguys

Ohlalalguys is a rebranded version of JuxMedia’s ManJam with even worse site navigation added. See also Bentlads, another one of these sites.

Lovetastic is explicitely not for men looking to hook up with hunks of burning love. “Finally, gay personals that treat you like a person,” the site says. Lovetastic says its goal is to bring together husbands. It used to be called Scene404 and the old landing page is pretty cute, in a dorky kind of way.

Free account holders can post profiles, browse the site and receive messages. Paid accounts, starting at $6 per month, enable users to send messages and chat.

Lovetastic’s interface is the cleanest, simplest and easiest on the eyes of any of these sites. In some ways it’s got more class than any of them. There are randomly generated interview questions for profiles and nude or shirtless pictures are prohibited. The site is ad free. If this is the site for you, you’ll likely know as soon as you visit it.

Connexion is LGBT online networking with a suffix. In addition to dating and events organizing the site focuses on low level political activity and news. There’s an RSS feed for news from the site. The site is a little awkward but not highly sexualized. Transgendered identity is supported on this site but not gender queer identities outside of those based on the Male/Female binary.

There aren’t paid memberships available for this nonprofit site but there are a handful of very unobtrusive ads. If you’re looking for news and political discussion in your LGBT social networking check out Connexion. OutEverywhere

OutEverywhere is a paid service for men and women in select countries around the world. It is very text intensive, site navigation is unbearable. This site has an emphasis on promoting real world events and venues. I couldn’t handle looking at it very much but there is a tag cloud if you scroll way down on the front page! Memberships are £19.95 for 6 months with a 28 free trial period.

DList looks like it was designed by someone from Gawker – in fact I’m sure it was. It’s a pretty straightforward social networking site with a good feature set. User blogs, topical site blogs to read, a music player on profile pages. It’s ad supported without premium accounts.

Without seeing more of what the community is like on DList, I imagine this site will be succeed if it can keep its costs down. It’s got all the basics taken care of and is attractive. BigJock

The site that inspired this post, BigJock, will launch its full featured version on early next month. The version that’s already up looks very nice though. It will include all the basics plus a Hot or Not picture rating component. The site will be free and ad supported. You can sign up now for an account and enter to win an iPod. BigJock has a long way to go before it can compete with the heavyweights above, but anything is possible and there are clearly niche approaches underway throughout the gay male social networking market. And that monkey logo is not to be missed.

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All gay men from all walks of life should feel welcome to date online. Intergenerational dating sites have an added responsibility of reflecting the current social and political landscape in order to effectively represent its clientele; gay mature men and younger men. After a decade of gay mature dating sites barely meeting the status quo, it’s time to take matters into our own hands.

Silverfoxie is a safe respectable place for mature men, silverdaddies, daddies, dads, older men and their younger men counterparts to share information, pictures, exchange messages, and plan a date.

We want to focus on aspects that other sites lose sight of; local search results, face pictures, and real meaningful relationships (not just hookups). While there is content of all kinds on Silverfoxie, the overall basic experience is G-rated. Unlike other sites, face pictures are paramount, providing added confidence that profiles will be displayed with the respect they deserve. This is the dating site your daddy would approve of.

Senior gay dating sites: the SilverSingles solution

Online dating has become the modern meeting place. And as the world has been transformed by technology, dating too has gone digital. And the good news is that it isn’t solely for the younger generation – Pew Research has shown that the number of users between 55-64 years old has more than doubled since 2013. And it continues to grow. With an accessible community of senior singles looking for love, SilverSingles offers a tailored solution for over 50 dating and this quickly expanding community.

The process starts with an insightful personality test, allowing us to get an understanding of what you’re looking for and what is important to you. To eliminate time wasters and unsuitable profiles, you will then be sent new matches every day. Using smart matchmaking technology based on psychological research, we take into account your personality traits and preferences, lifestyle, location and relationship goals. You are sent selected profiles to match your own, giving you a higher chance of compatibility and connection with other men seeking men.

Are you busy and on the go or do you prefer to enjoy senior gay dating sites with the privacy of your own computer? Flexible to your needs, SilverSingles is available in a desktop version or, if you prefer mobility in your online dating, you can choose our mature dating app, optimized for both Android and Apple. We believe gay senior dating should fit comfortably into your lifestyle and be as uncomplicated and convenient as possible for you to enjoy the experience.

Online dating safety is an issue we also take seriously. With SilverSingles you can enjoy online dating with the peace of mind that we take data privacy seriously and follow all the steps to ensure your personal details are kept safe. We do also have a dedicated Customer Care team to take care of you and verify profiles to avoid scammers and tricksters. All that there is left to do is get down to the business of meeting your match and enjoying the exciting bits – getting out there on your first date!

Taking into consideration our community, which is designed for over 50, 60, 70 and older dating, we also have some handy advice on how to make the most out of your senior gay dating websites. Should you want some confidence to get the ball rolling, learn more about online dating messages, how to make the best SilverSingles profile or how to use the dating app – we’re on hand to help you start dating again!

Be open

It can be easy to specify exactly want you do and don’t want in a partner while using senior gay dating sites. But you’re both taking a chance on each other so even if they don’t seem the perfect fit, you never know what relationship could develop. So take a chance and it may just be the best adventure you’ve been on! And remember you shouldn’t be afraid to say no – if you’re not comfortable in a situation, it’s your prerogative to just say no. By listening to your heart, be open to where it may lead you.

Be kind

A good rule in dating, as in life, is do to others as you wish them to do to you. Just because it’s online dating, doesn’t make it ok to be disrespectful. Reply to messages, even if it’s to say you’re not interested. Try avoid using stereotypes or clichés in your communications as in truth it undermines the individual. Learn how to give and take acceptance and rejection with equal grace and respect. Good manners and respect take you far in life and online! And, most importantly, be kind and patient with yourself.

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Your profile is the online version of your first impression for potential matches. Choose suitable photos as the golden rule of online gay senior dating. Choose a selection of photos that are accurate and reflect aspects of your personality. Don’t use outdated pictures, or try hide your real age or weight, or whatever other insecurity you may have. You want a date to know who they are meeting on the first date, but you also want to put your best foot forward. Select pictures with good lighting, recently taken, and in which you’re appropriately dressed, smiling and comfortable.

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Connect with Your Community: Gay, Senior Dating with SilverSingles

Getting back into dating and meeting a compatible partner can sometimes feel like a difficult undertaking. And gay senior dating does have something of a reputation for being a difficult domain to find a serious, long-term relationship. The gay dating scene, fairly or not, has been accused of frivolity at its best and ageism at its worst. So how do you go about meeting senior, gay singles who share your values and goals?

A key factor to finding the right people is finding the right community. The first step to putting yourself out there to meet singles who also want a lasting relationship is finding those singles! And that’s where SilverSingles comes in. Created for senior singles looking for authentic connections, the platform offers the opportunity to connect with real people looking for real relationships. And although meet-up groups and social networks are a great way to meet other senior gay singles, you don’t know who you will meet or what they are looking for. Enter SilverSingles, the intelligent option when hoping to meet your match on senior gay dating sites.

Senior Gay Dating Sites – Why Choose SilverSingles?

Online dating has become the modern meeting place. And as the world has been transformed by technology, dating too has gone digital. And the good news is that it isn’t solely for the younger generation – Pew Research has shown that the number of users between 55-64 years old has more than doubled since 2013. And it continues to grow. With an accessible community of senior singles looking for love, SilverSingles offers a tailored solution for over 50 dating and this quickly expanding community.

The process starts with an insightful personality test, allowing us to get an understanding of what you’re looking for and what is important to you. To eliminate time wasters and unsuitable profiles, you will then be sent new matches every day. Using smart matchmaking technology based on psychological research, we take into account your personality traits and preferences, lifestyle, location, and relationship goals. You are sent selected profiles to match your own, giving you a higher chance of compatibility and connection with other men seeking men.

Are you busy and on the go or do you prefer to enjoy senior gay dating sites with the privacy of your own computer? Flexible to your needs, SilverSingles is available in a desktop version or, if you prefer mobility in your online dating, you can choose our mature dating app, optimized for both Android and Apple. We believe gay senior dating should fit comfortably into your lifestyle and be as uncomplicated and convenient as possible for you to enjoy the experience.

Online dating safety is an issue we also take seriously. With SilverSingles you can enjoy online dating with the peace of mind that we take data privacy seriously and follow all the steps to ensure your personal details are kept safe. We do also have a dedicated Customer Care team to take care of you and verify profiles to avoid scammers and tricksters. All that there is left to do is get down to the business of meeting your match and enjoying the exciting bits – getting out there on your first date!

Taking into consideration our community, which is designed for over 50, 60, 70 and older dating, we also have some handy advice on how to make the most out of your senior gay dating websites. Should you want some confidence to get the ball rolling, learn more about online dating messages, how to make the best SilverSingles profile or how to use the dating app – we’re on hand to help you start dating again!

4 Useful and Simple Gay Senior Dating Tips

It can be easy to specify exactly want you do and don’t want in a partner while using senior gay dating sites. But you’re both taking a chance on each other so even if they don’t seem the perfect fit, you never know what relationship could develop. So take a chance and it may just be the best adventure you’ve been on! And remember you shouldn’t be afraid to say no – if you’re not comfortable in a situation, it’s your prerogative to just say no. By listening to your heart, be open to where it may lead you.

Do you believe in monogamy or is it your goal to get married? It’s helpful for you to be clear with yourself first about what kind of relationship you really want. It may not be suitable first date conversation, but when the time is right, be honest! Even if it’s tempting to try and create a more appealing picture, not being upfront creates a gap between reality and perception. And you know, if you meet the man of your dreams – you want him to see you for who you are!

A good rule in dating, as in life, is do to others as you wish them to do to you. Just because it’s online dating, doesn’t make it ok to be disrespectful. Reply to messages, even if it’s to say you’re not interested. Try to avoid using stereotypes or clichés in your communications as in truth it undermines the individual. Learn how to give and take acceptance and rejection with equal grace and respect. Good manners and respect take you far in life and online! And, most importantly, be kind and patient with yourself.

Your profile is the online version of your first impression for potential matches. Choose suitable photos as the golden rule of online gay senior dating. Choose a selection of photos that are accurate and reflect aspects of your personality. Don’t use outdated pictures, or try to hide your real age or weight, or whatever other insecurity you may have. You want a date to know who they are meeting on the first date, but you also want to put your best foot forward. Select pictures with good lighting, recently taken, and in which you’re appropriately dressed, smiling and comfortable.

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Why Gay random chat Made it to the List

Random chat sites are very popular, especially with the gay communities online. Finding the best gay random chat site was difficult because there are so many of them. However, this one stood out from the crowd because of its great features and the fact that so many people use this website on a regular basis. Below are some of the top reasons why gay cam chat site made it to the list.

Guys Seeking Men for Dates Love Our Local Gay Dating Service

Welcome to Cupid, a gay man dating site that will put a smile on your face. It could be the case that you had been hoping to meet single gay guys sometime, without finding the most appropriate outlet? Perhaps you have previously tried connecting in singles bars or by hanging around in nightclubs known to be popular with a gay clientele? If you’ve yet to meet Mr. Right, this will have nothing to do with anything you have done but is more likely the case it isn’t easy to forge genuine connections in those settings.

Once you begin interacting with the other site users here, you will find the comparison to be like night and day! So many charming single gay men have submitted details to our webpages because they are keen for this information to be noticed by suitors who will feel compelled to get in touch.

Are you shy about meeting a potential partner in the online environment? You can get to know a variety of friendly gay males simply by introducing yourself in the hospitable chat room facility.

You can carry Cupid around with your wherever you happen to be. If you feel the urge to interact with some handsome hunks, they’re always waiting to hear from you. Just log in and start chatting.

Have you long harbored an ambition to flirt with amazing gay singles from different locations? Cupid will put you in touch with that ripped guy you’ve been lusting after. Exchange intimate messages.

Find Gay Singles Who Are Keen to Interact and Flirt Online

If you are gay and are looking for a man for fun relationships in your neighborhood, you have come to the right place. It’s so easy to find gay romance once you complete the free registration and become a member of Cupid.

I love Cupid so much! I have tried other gay dating sites before now but have never felt to be at home in any of them. They either seem to be aimed at people seeking instant results, where are you are never be guaranteed of capturing someone’s attention for more than a few messages. Or they are focusing on people seeking a long-term partnership. If like myself, you occupy the middle of these extremes, it’s often difficult to find a suitable platform to rely on. But this outlet it has transformed my love life. I was able to connect with a cute guy almost immediately, the site’s algorithm ensuring we were matched according to compatibility from the outset.

If you have never been tempted to look for a gay partner in the virtual environment before now, I would strongly suggest that you sign up for Cupid. I found this site so easy to navigate. Unlike other sites I have tried before now, this one put me in touch with a tremendous cross-section of handsome bears who appeared to be on the same wavelength. Some were so hunky! By browsing through a selection of profiles I was immediately able to come across individuals sharing my passions. I’m particularly interested in foreign dating and was soon connecting with charming gay dudes from different cultural backgrounds. I always find it stimulating to be able to interact with people from far-flung locations.

One thing that has particularly drawn me to this website is the fact that there are no international barriers. Within about a month of joining I was getting to know gay men in Canada, Scotland, Scandinavia, India, and France. I have made a terrific cross-section of fantastic new friends, and the online environment offered by this site is the perfect place where you can feel relaxed enough to begin sharing intimate details. I am already planning a holiday next year in one of the aforementioned locations where I will have my very own travel guide! The other day I was chatting to a handsome Spaniard from Madrid, picking up a lot of tips about Hispanic flirting!

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Do you enjoy gay men chat? If you do, then signing up to become a member of Cupid will be the best step you could take. It’s easy to chat with gay guys once you have become a member of our site, developing the confidence to introduce yourself in the chat rooms and get familiar with a diverse range of site users.

Our Top 10 Choices: Which Is Best For Your Needs?

Scissr – Best for lesbian culture, community, and dating 

Taimi – Best for trendy, social media-based dating 

1. HER

Membership options: Free with a paid premium version

Over the years, the pioneer in lesbian dating apps HER has developed into an all-inclusive platform for women and femmes of all types, identities, and sexual preferences. HER embraces and welcomes more than 18 gender identities and 17 sexual orientations on the profile selection list. HER’s app is easy to use, loaded with communication features, and even hosts local events for more community building.

2. Grindr

Membership options: Free with a paid premium version

Available for gay, bi, trans, and other queer singles, Grindr is one of the most popular dating apps with a reputation of men seeking hookups with other men. Thanks to its powerful geolocation feature, Grindr is a great social networking solution for people who’ve recently moved, relocated, are traveling, or seeking a quick fling in their area.

3. OKCupid

Membership options: Free with paid upgrade options available

OKCupid may be one of the mainstream dating apps but the platform openly welcomes all LGBTQ+ singles. With 22 different gender identities and 12 sexual orientations, LGBTQ+ folks will certainly find their place on the app. Bonus: OKCupid even allows queer people to hide their profile from straight and cisgender people (for safety or personal reasons).

4. Hornet 

Membership options: Free with a paid premium version

Hornet is one of the most popular gay social networking apps and gives queer men a great platform to meet other queer men around the world. The app offers various ways to build community, find other singles, stay current on trending news, and even a list of bathhouses in your area. It’s basically a one-stop-shop for gay social networking.

5. Scruff

Scruff is known as a hotspot for gay hookups no matter where you are in the world. Users enjoy open sharing features and powerful search filters to find whoever and whatever you’re looking for. Scruff is also an excellent travel companion for gay singles looking to meet others while away from home. Plus, the more you swipe, the stronger the algorithm gets!

6. Bumble 

Membership options: Free with a paid premium version

Bumble is all about empowering women and femmes to make the first move. The emphasis is heavy on feminist power with the right to initiate messaging restricted to women and non-binary members. The popular dating app started as a dating app but now features global networking opportunities for building friendships, business relations, social networking, and, of course, relationships. 

7. Scissr

Scissr is a great dating app for lesbian and queer women who want to network and connect with other members of the LGBTQ+ community. The app is designed for women, femmes, and non-binary folks who are looking to find friends, date, and discuss culture and relationships with other queer singles. The app’s design is sleek and user-friendly with free chat and image sharing features.

8. Jack’d

Membership options: Free with a paid premium version

Jack’d prides itself on being the most diverse dating app for gay, bi, and trans people. It boasts a powerful geolocation feature that helps you browse singles all over the world and flag them for conversations or private photo and video sharing. If you struggle to break the ice, Jack’d even offers a chat phrases feature which gives helpful conversation starters. 

9. Hinge

Membership options: Free with a paid premium version

Hinge calls itself the dating app that is meant to be deleted because it puts a heavy emphasis on serious relationships. Profiles are built on bold questions to quickly and effectively uncover personality quirks and offer conversation starters for matches. Hinge will ask you about your political affiliation and how you feel about legalizing weed and offers plenty of gender identification options as well.

10. Taimi

Membership options: Free with a paid premium version

Taimi is a LGBTQ+ dating platform that features a nice mashup of dating, chatting, and social networking capabilities for people of all gender identities and sexualities. The app is designed perfectly for today’s fast-paced, short-attention-span, social-media focused society. Taimi is geared towards a safe dating culture for the LGBTQ+ community with values that include diversity and inclusion and a zero tolerance policy toward discrimination. 

Reviewing the Top LGBTQ+ Dating Sites: Our Methodology

’s dating app and website reviews are based on independent research, trusted third party sites, user reviews, and individual use of the product through free or paid trials. For the rest of the information, we rely on what the brand says about its own product offering, public reviews and complaints, and ratings from independent agencies like the BBB and trusted publications. Some of the key features we compared when reviewing the LGBTQ+ dating apps on our list include, but are not limited to, pricing, accessibility, number of members, and communication options. 

What You Need to Know Before Choosing an LGBTQ+ Dating Site

Dating as a member of the LGBTQ+ community can be fun, enjoyable, and successful if you know how to navigate the apps. Before signing up and spending time creating a profile, here are some things to ask yourself about the queer dating site you’re interested in:

What Types of LGBTQ+ Dating Sites Are There?

There are a lot of niche dating apps out there, including those for the LGBTQ+ community. Which one you’ll choose all depends on what you’re hoping to gain from it. You can look for the most selective one out there to really tailor your dating experience, opt for a broader dating app and see what (or who) you find, or pick one with a specific intention (like hookups only, serious relationships, or casual situationships). Sometimes you can find an app that caters to all of these. In which case, you’ll need to specify your preferences on your profile page and/or when chatting with a potential date (more on this below). As with love and relationships, the choice is yours to make. 

How Much Does LGBTQ+ Dating Cost

Each LGBTQ+ dating app presents its own cost. Whereas some are entirely free, others are freemium, and the rest are totally paid. 

Free or freemium dating apps let you create an account and browse the network for potential matches. However, you’ll have to pay to unlock more, better features that might introduce you to the type of person or relationship you’re seeking. 

Subscription-based dating apps charge you a flat rate every month and grant you access to all available features. Monthly subscriptions generally start around $9/month and go up from there. You almost always get a discount for signing up for multiple months at once, too.

Other sites charge per action. Want to chat? 5 credits. Send a pic? 5 credits. Send a gift? You got it. 5 credits. You’ll buy credits in a bundle then they’ll subtract from your account whenever you take an action. This pricing structure can quickly get expensive so watch your spending while using these apps.

Love Is Out There, Find It Today

Modern dating is complicated enough without having to explain your gender identity or sexual orientation. In addition to safety factors, this is why LGBTQ+ dating apps are so helpful. Whether you’re looking to find a good friend who views the world from a similar perspective as you, want a playful night with a stranger, or are searching for that special someone to spend the rest of your life with, queer dating apps make the entire process a lot smoother, easier, and more enjoyable for everyone. Check it out, and see who you might find!

Finding the Best Gay Dating Apps with SilverSingles

The SilverSingles dating app offers the perks of premium dating with the convenience of being on your mobile. If you want to connect with compatible single men, SilverSingles could be one of the best gay dating apps for relationships for you to choose from today.

After the quick and easy registration process, the first step in our advanced matchmaking system is the personality test. Because it gives us unique insights into your personality, preferences and what makes you tick, our in-depth matchmaking system is what sets us apart from other gay dating apps. Based on the ‘Big Five Factor’ model, it evaluates your personality across various dimensions to determine exactly what kind of man would be a great match for you.

Combining the outcome of your personality test with your relationship goals, preferences, location and other key factors, SilverSingles sends you 3-7 matches daily. In addition to this you can search out more profiles, and once you connect with an interesting match, you can request additional photos and strike up a conversation.

We know that online security is important when choosing a dating app. SilverSingles applies strict personal data protocols to ensure your online safety. And we also have a helpful Customer Care team on hand should you need a little extra assistance. We want you to enjoy online dating with the peace of mind that you’re in safe hands!

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Why Choose SilverSingles?

SilverSingles offers you the opportunity to join a curated community of over 50s singles who share a desire for a real relationship and companionship. Choosing a premium dating app, such as SilverSingles, sets your online dating experience with us apart and enables you to join a platform that is serious about dating. When choosing gay dating apps for older guys, it often pays to be selective.

Choosing to meet new people with gay dating apps means you can connect directly with local singles who share your outlook. You can also do so while on the move, at home, or on holiday -regardless of where you may be, you can enjoy a full dating service on your smartphone. With SilverSingles, convenience and connection easily go hand in hand.

As mature dating experts, SilverSingles also understands what’s important to our members. We focus on advanced matchmaking to deliver you compatible profiles daily. Once you’ve signed up you can also enjoy access to unlimited messaging and even see who has viewed your profile! The SilverSingles dating app is also readily available for on iTunes and Google Play Stores, so it’s easy to find and download.

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Succeeding with Senior Gay Dating Apps

To make the most of your online dating experience and meet interesting gay singles, there’re a few key pointers to keep in mind.

Your profile is often the most powerful tool in the world of gay dating and online dating apps. It creates the first impression of you that potential matches see! So, put in the effort and create a profile that is accurate and detailed.

At the end of the day, online it can be tempting to airbrush your image and edit your responses to create a perfect impression. However, you want someone who likes you for you and gameplaying is now so passé! So be authentic and show up in a real way if you want to enjoy a genuine connection.

Knowing what is important to you in a partner from the start can open your eyes to help you recognize the right match when it comes along. In the same breath, know your own value and don’t settle for less than you deserve. There are single gay men who share your values and priorities and put the time in to find them!

A much as it can be daunting to put yourself out there, it’s also an exciting new adventure. There are so many wonderful people out there who also are looking to meet someone new – and that person could be you! They’re in the same boat as you so just get out there and make the most of it!

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Why is online dating so hard?

One aspect of online dating dynamics poses a challenge for both men and women, but from different angles: If it’s a lady you’re pursuing, chances are she’s received more than a few unsolicited messages already. For women, maneuvering around creeps is often more work than it’s worth. For men, the responsibility to not be one of those guys can add a heightened intimidation factor.

Don’t be a creep

The internet is plagued with tales of nasty messages and whack opening lines from men. Avoiding the creep factor with someone you just matched with shouldn’t be hard — simply don’t be pushy about sexting, getting their number, or meeting up, and definitely don’t harass someone about not wanting to hang out during a pandemic. (Just don’t be pushy about anything, really. It’s as simple as that.) As for devising an opener that will grow into a nice conversation, the harmless intent to be funny or flattering can go south quickly. Choosing the right dating app can make all the difference for men who are a little rusty or generally shy about messaging first. Bumble, the app where only women can make the first move, is an obvious safe choice for the latter. 

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For men who need a point in the right direction when it comes to conversation starters, dating sites with user profiles more extensive than a rushed Tinder bio could make a world of difference. The ability to see someone’s hobbies, favorite movies, career goals, or even political views before even talking to them opens up a wealth of clever ice breakers. Bonding over how you both thought Solo: A Star Wars Story was actually good, is one million times better than telling a woman that you „think you saw them somewhere.“ (That is not endearing. Never do that.)

Be honest about what you want 

Tinder can be the right app for some singles. But if you find yourself constantly deleting it and re-downloading Tinder every other month despite the fact that you hate the app, a different site might make better use of your time. What is it that’s not working about your current dating site of choice? Is it too entrenched in hookup culture? Is it not focused on hookups enough? Do you find yourself getting intentions mixed up with people who aren’t looking for the same thing? Each dating site serves a different purpose, and things are a lot easier when you’re mingling with people who want what you want.

If you’re looking for love, these tips will get you headed in the right direction.

Bette Davis used to say, „Getting older ain’t for sissies.“

Amen! Neither is dating at midlife — especially if you’re a gay man.

Whether you’re single again after the end of a long-term relationship or you’ve been around the block a few times still on the hunt for Mr. Right, gay dating isn’t easy.

No matter what your age, focus on being your best self when dating.

But don’t let that be your excuse for sitting home on Saturday night watching reruns of .

These strategies can help you develop your inner explorer to make dating after 50 a little less daunting:

You’re never too old to find love, but that’s not a message gay men hear very often. Why? After years of „working on ourselves“ and fighting social prejudice to gain self-esteem, many of us struggle to keep it. The hurdle this time? The gay community’s — OK, let’s get real, mostly the gay community’s — ageism.

„Within the gay community, negative stereotypes reinforce the belief that gay relationships are based solely on physical attraction, and that once youth starts to fade, we are unlikely to have any real or lasting relationships,“ says Rik Isensee, author of

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Worried you aren’t good-looking enough anymore? Who’d want when there’s some 30-year-old hottie turning everyone’s heads at the gym? Don’t even let yourself go there. Focus instead on being your best self, no matter what your age. And remember that the most important characteristics — loyalty, humor, intelligence and compassion — are ageless.

If you think you’re too old for love or you stopped believing that you can find someone to love who’ll love you back, think again. Maybe you just stopped believing in the kind of naive love that you can only trust when you’re young. But what about the deeper, more mature love that allows for the wide spectrum of experience and truth? That’s where you should set your sights.

For every 20-something entering the gay dating scene full of wide-eyed wonder, there’s a 50-something (or a 60-, 70- or older-something) man back on the market after a relationship ends One is learning the rules; the other has „been there, dated that“ and wonders, „Now what?“ It’s daunting to consider starting over.

The truth is that you’ve earned your age. You really can own it. Focus on what you’ve gained — rich experiences, accomplishments, survivor skills and wisdom. Your next romantic partner will benefit from all of that, and from your passions for the life that’s in front of you.

Give up wishing you could turn back time. Give up trying to be perfect, too, especially if that’s a code word for „young.“ Yes, it’s important to take care of your body and your health, but no need to obsess. Instead of trying to be 25 again, get comfortable in your skin. Feel good about your body. That way, when someone touches you, they’ll really feel you, and not a bundle of self-critical tension. Think more about keeping a sparkle in your eyes and less on fighting the fine lines around them.

Does walking into a gay bar make you feel more out of place than Lady Gaga shopping for clothes at a mall?

Yes, it’s true that the Olympic-sized pool of dating prospects you swam in years ago seems like a lap lane when you reach your 50s. So the best bet is to cast a wider net. Get off of the sideline and get involved in your passions and interests. For example, if you like the outdoors, join a gay hiking or walking group, and meet men while you get fresh air and exercise. Focus on smaller parties, events centered on hobbies and interests, and volunteer opportunities. And, if you haven’t already, try online dating, which is bringing new hope to those of us who don’t have a ton of time or want to hang out at bars.

Check out sites such as that can help you find long-term relationships versus flings or hookups. Then create a profile that reflects who are you, what you want and includes photos. Don’t post the online profile of Dorian Gray by showing off your shiny youth. When it comes to truth in advertising, it’s one thing to shave a couple of years off. It’s another to leave out an entire decade! If you want a real relationship, then be real. Lying raises a serious red flag. Your date will wonder, „If he’s not honest about his age, what other lies is he telling?“

 One advantage of age is self-awareness. When you know yourself better, you can quickly size up what you want in someone else. Maybe you’re more careful about first dates and immediately nix a pointless second night out. You’re quick to assess if your date wants the same level of relationship as you, whether that’s casual or committed. You recognize dysfunction and mismatches faster now than you did when you were younger.

But that doesn’t mean you should be rigid and inflexible. Keep an open mind and try to expand your horizons. Chat with a guy who isn’t your „type“ and stretch your boundaries. And so what if he doesn’t immediately strike you as hot and sexy? Now it might be comforting to find a partner who can relate to your experiences and your outlook, and has the same pop culture references you do.

It’s also a good idea to ask your closest friends for regular feedback (yes, ask them to give you input on your actions and choices), so you don’t get stuck in your ways.

Hey, you don’t have to tell me it’s tough being gay, single and over 50. It’s not like gay subculture has given us lots of happily dating, older gay male role models. With all the focus on marriage equality these days, it’s easy for gay men to think that being single and happy is an oxymoron.

There’s more focus on getting into a committed relationship than there is on making sure it’s the right one. The truth is that sometimes when you want a relationship so badly, you draft the first reasonable candidate. Or you’re miserable because there’s no prospect on the horizon. Neither is a good option.

Don’t settle for anything less than chemistry, shared values/lifestyle/goals, trust, and a growing and abiding friendship.

Especially at this stage of life, why would you want a relationship that doesn’t bring you happiness? I can think of something far worse than being single, gay and older. Being coupled, gay and unhappy.

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If you are in search of a trustworthy dating resource to join, we strongly advise to consider as an option. This platform has more than twenty years of experience in bringing together various couples all over the world. We take into account such traits as:

Here you can come in touch with local gay guys and start dating. You might meet a perfect boyfriend who has lived around the corner for all your life but has never bumped into you in the street. But at the same time, your lover might happen to be from the other continent.

Using as a website to look for love, you are guaranteed to have personal privacy and safety. No data is required for a possible date to come in contact with you: share email address or a phone number later on, but initially there is a messaging system created specifically for our website which helps our clients communicate. And if you happen to have certain issues, our customer support team are eager to help anytime.

Advice for gay dating

First of all, let’s talk about dating in general. Even though there is an opinion that dating a guy is not at all different than dating a lady, there are some peculiarities, both personal and from the side of society, which will be good to be aware of. Let’s break it down.

Find the Gay Singles near you

Now that gay men are finally starting to get legal marriage rights, and social/cultural respect, the number of publicly gay personal ads has blossomed. If you are looking for local men seeking men, allows you to instantly view local singles quickly and totally free of charge.

You can also use our site to learn about dating tips, online dating etiquette, and how you can protect your online privacy.

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How to Meet Gay Men?

There are often bars or nightclubs exclusively aimed at a single-sex clientele. The difficulty with meeting guys in these circumstances is that you can never be sure of anyone’s true intentions until you get to know them better. That’s where Internet dating can provide such a useful service. After you have completed the registration process and signed up for a site like Cupid, you can spend some time getting to know the other site users.

Where to Meet Gay Guys?

You can meet gay guys in a variety of offline outlets. When you are trying to make an impression, it’s important to be as friendly as possible, developing a rapport before you get as far as arranging dates. During these conversations, it would be worthwhile to suss out someone else’s aspirations. Are they keen on casual encounters, or are they perhaps looking for something a little more long-term and meaningful? If your feelings are reciprocated you’re in for a good time!

How to Find Gay Guys?

By far the best outlet for finding gay guys in your neighborhood isn’t by hanging around in any social situations, but entrusting the online environment. Once you have signed up to a website like Cupid, you will find it very easy to connect with potential partners. All the gay singles who have already committed to this site have done soon because they are keen to meet someone for a proper relationship. You’ll meet fabulous local hunks here.

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How narrowly do you want to filter down your dating options? Does the app cater to a specific identity (ex. specifically for lesbians or transgender people) or is anyone with an open mind and sexual preference welcome to join? 

Answer these questions, and you’ll have a much easier time finding the right LGBTQ+ dating site for you.

Financial scams

Scammers troll dating apps to score money from unsuspecting daters. To avoid personal identity theft and financial scams, never send money or give out your financial information (bank details, credit card info, etc.). This is likely just a ploy to get money out of you.

Be clear about your intentions

Before meeting your match off a dating app, discuss the date plan ahead of time so there’s no confusion, miscommunication, or disappointments. This doesn’t mean you need to say you want to get married in two years over text, but rather simply mentioning that you’d love to grab dinner instead of Netflix and chilling. This will help set the tone for both parties. (Basically, you want to avoid getting ready for a sexy night of passion when the other person is simply hoping to grab coffee then head home after.)

Confront your fears first

Being part of the LGBTQ+ community often comes with its own set of unique challenges that straight folks don’t have to deal with. This can include dealing with internalized fears or homophobia, biphobia, and transphobia that has been taught to us from society and media since childhood. Before you can open yourself up to having a mature, respectful relationship with someone else, you need to be secure within yourself. Confront any lingering, nagging fears about your sexuality and harmful thoughts about others‘ identities by journaling or working with a therapist to set yourself up for a safe, healthy relationship with someone off a dating app

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Seek through friends and relatives

Especially if they are aware of your sexual preferences, they might have already suggested to present their acquaintance who also happened to be gay. For sure, everybody wants to have freedom of choice and be able to pick a partner by himself. But why not give it a chance? Yes, there are chances you wouldn’t like each other or happen to be polar opposites. But it might not be the case and your new acquaintance could actually be the one you dreamed of. And if not, then simply spend your time well and maybe get a new friend.

But it might not be the case and your new acquaintance could actually be the one you dreamed of.

Also, meeting a partner through the people you already know prevents from having issues later. You get a possibility to instantly learn more about the date from those who already know him well enough. That means, no bad guys, no cheaters or liars. At least, you will know about it beforehand and take your own responsibility in dating them.

Don’t rely on parties

Gay dating often implies going to various clubs and parties thinking that a future partner must be awaiting there. In our opinion, this option is not even close to being a good one. Well, maybe if you need a one night stand, yes, this is your chance of getting one. But those dreaming of a future husband will not be in luck paying a visit to a gay bar.

Apart from people who don’t deserve trust, trying to find a partner through a party has other drawbacks. Such as being too stressful for many people. For instance, gay dating for introverts is full of complications by itself, and going to a nightclub, with hundreds of people dancing or drinking and loud music playing will be a whole challenge. Dating is a process one should enjoy, and there is no need to complicate it and make it unpleasant.

Dating is a process one should enjoy, and there is no need to complicate it and make it unpleasant.

Don’t let stereotypes catch you and stop inventing problems

Some people say that straight couples are the only ones with a future, other believe that only gays can build healthy relationships. Surely none of those points are true. All of us are human beings, all of us can be right and wrong. Not a single relationship will always work flawlessly, so seeing everything in black and white just provokes problems and unrealistic expectations which lead to disappointment.

Inventing problems is the perfect way to sabotage yourself and your relationship. People love to see all things in black so sincerely, that they ignore the simple and clear truth — some problems are just thin air. If you doubt yourself, underestimate your self-esteem, this feeling of insecurity will both pull down you and your future relationships. It is important to understand that life is always a road with ups and downs and it’s okay to fail. Sometimes just being gay is a huge deal, but you are who you are. All you can do is just take a deep breath and soberly assess the situation.

Don’t be desperate

Meeting gay singles, chances are you think of them as of your last chance to get a boyfriend. That happens often because other gay men in somebody’s local area are not often visible and may even have not come out of the closet. So when you finally come across one, and especially if he happens to be your type, you don’t want to let him go.

Be very respectful about coming out

For many gays it is a very serious matter, and opinions here can be very different. You can meet a person who truly believes that it is important to be open, or someone who hides his sexual orientation from family or colleagues for one reason or another. Both approaches are okay, we all can decide for ourself whether we are ready to open to the world or not. Gay community has enough pressure from the outside, so everything inside should be understanding and respectful. Discrimination is still on the social agenda, many people don’t want to talk about their sexuality at all. Surely it is necessary to overcome fear and social anxiety, and relationships and dating are a good and healthy way. Just don’t push your new mate too hard and don’t let him put pressure on you.

Men faces are worth thousands of words

Single older gay men, daddies, and younger men want to see who they are planning to meet, so Silverfoxie is filled with face pictures of older men and younger men. Your up-front experience here is G-rated pics, with the option of seeing more revealing content any time you choose.

Meet older men near you

So many sites want to show you how big their database is, so they show you a hot mature man from 3,000 miles away. You shouldn’t have to buy a plane ticket to meet a potential match. Save your money for a vacation. Silverfoxie takes a different approach. We show you older or younger men based on the population density of where you live. So you are looking at hot silverdaddies, daddies, dads, and older gay men your city. You might have to take a car to meet a potential date but not a plane.

Together you’re stronger

Ultimately, at Silverfoxie, our mindset is to get you into the best relationship with the hottest older man a site can offer. We do this by creating a clean, entertaining, respectable place for you to post a profile and meet like minded mature men, gay daddy types, and younger men. It’s hard enough dealing with a society still getting over a bout of homophobia and ageism, you shouldn’t have to fight with your gay dating site too.

Clean Simple and Easy to use

Silverfoxie has a clean simple interface that makes sense. Features are only added when they help our older men find a younger match and for our younger members to find daddies, so our interface isn’t junked up with ads and options you will never use. Supporting members, however, will benefit from additional mind blowing features you won’t see anywhere else; constantly updating Keepers List, stream posts, full screen images, as well as all the usual premium features other sites offer.