You know ever since I was a child, I always knew I had a twin-flame or a soul mate somewhere. My late grandma Lily always told me that your soul mate would be the one who would fill and complement what you lack in your persona. She explained the theory of Yin-Yang to me, where the soul mates form the Yin and the Yang individually, and then become one when destiny makes them meet.
It is believed that twin-souls or soul mates, no matter where they are, would have personal traits which would be the same, experiences and situations or even behaviors and thoughts or actions too would be alike. They both would have faced same experiences in their individual lives, and when you meet him and talk to him for the first time, you would notice more of your own experiences and traits in him. This is how your relationship begins and works. Both the souls would have some variations because of being separated on the physical plane for some time, but when they meet, the two become one. In fact, it is said that the two of them help get each other’s “karma cleared”, and in some cases (sadly) the two of them aren’t even in sync with one another.
It is just as any other relationship; damn the media for making things look so nice. You would find faults with each other’s personalities and habits. It is actually the bonding that was created in a past life which brings the two of you together this time. There is like an instant connection that happens and you don’t have to see the fairies or hear the bells ring. Compassion for him would be the highest at all times, even when they are down the rut. Viewpoints of the other expand with the help of one in the relationship.
You would enjoy travelling with your soul mate to various hideouts and places. One would have the talent to be creative and the other the talent to be innovative. Both of you would have fun, and yes sex while travelling would be awesome. The experiences of life would be fully rewarding, especially when your soul mate is with you.
Not all soul mates are meant to be lovers; some can be best friends too. So if you have found someone like that, just as I have, lucky us. Have fun with your soul mate and I wish you both love and happiness.
The Deeper Love of the Twin Flame
(Excerpt sample from the book,“Attracting in Love, Friendships and the Human Heart”by Kevin Hunter)
The Twin Flame is the highest and deepest form of a soul connection. Twin flames rarely incarnate at the same time, even though there appears to be a trend that many are searching for their other half twin flame soul. It is not the goal to find one’s twin flame since they cannot be found. When it is time for a soul to connect with their twin flame while on its soul’s journey, then it will happen naturally with no effort. This is similar to the image of magnet attracting in steel. Most human soul’s twin flames are on the other side. Searching for someone who is not living on the Earth plane may result in prolonged disappointment.
Every single soul knows their twin flame personally, even if they do not remember them while living an Earthly life. Your soul is part of their soul. Your souls split apart breaking into two when your soul was formed and sparked out of God. This is like human twins who have formed out of the same egg. With that come the many similarities and natures between them. Those who have a twin sibling mostly do not always look identical or have exactly the same interests. Your twin flame does not look like you, but there will be a great deal of similarities and a huge bond and attraction that never ceases throughout the course of your Earthly life. It is not one sided as both of the twin flames feel this attraction and intensity for each other indefinitely. This is the case even if they temporarily separate or one of the partners flees out of a need for independence. Fleeing is common among a twin flame. Their ego will want to focus on more practical matters rather than succumbing to the depths of an intense love connection with someone.
On Earth, usually one or both of the twin flames are involved in positive spiritual or faith based pursuits. If one is more involved in it than the other, then the other soul will display growing signs that they’re heading in that direction. They are likely the younger partner of the duo, but not always. This is a human soul who has evolved to the level greater than the superficiality of the physical world. This isn’t to be mistaken with two people who are involved in religious pursuits which harm others through words or violence. The twin flame soul is highly evolved beyond hate filled dogma.
It is near impossible for twin flames not to merge together in a love relationship. It’s too heartbreaking on both ends for them to be apart for too long after they’ve first connected. The twin flame connection can be a tough connection to bring together at times. Sadly some twin flames connections come together, break apart, come together and break apart and repeat. This is due to one or the both of their egos denying they’re meant to be. One or the both of them may sabotage or pull away from the connection due to its intensity. Yet they manage to end up right back together months or even years later again. There’s a cycle where they are two peas in a pod, then a period where they have little to no contact with one another, only to be back in one another’s arms years later. They wouldn’t be able to function or continue on through life indefinitely without the other one. This is on both ends and not just with one of them. If it’s just with one of them, then that’s an unrequited love, karmic connection, or soul mate relationship.
There’s nothing wrong with someone being a soul mate relationship over a twin flame. In fact, the soul mate connections are at times easier than a twin flame union. Soul mates experience friction as well, but twin flames are more intense and feeling oriented. This contributes to the additional difficulties. The friction with twin flames is in coming together. They have trouble connecting and sealing the deal. This friction is due to ego. Human souls grow uncomfortable or over emotional when feeling a heightened love attraction for someone who feels the same way about them. This goes beyond a physical attraction and into an unwavering deep soul attraction. The more insecure partner of the twin flame connection may end the relationship more than once. Sometimes this is to pursue selfish ego gratifying needs, yet their twin flame partner will always be on their mind, or will continue to surface in their mind indefinitely throughout their life.
Everyone is with their twin flame at some point on the other side before they incarnate on earth. Many souls come to Earth either as student or teacher. Earth is school and all human souls are in class. When you graduate, then you go back home where your twin flame is waiting. This is why it’s rare for the twin flame to be on Earth when you are, because one of them is usually more evolved spiritually. If that’s the case, there is no reason for them to incarnate into a human body, unless they agree to an Earthly life in the role of Teacher or Leader.
This would mean that if your twin flame has also incarnated into a human body, they have done so as student. The Twin Flame mix on Earth is either Teacher-Student or Teacher-Teacher. This is also why there is often an age difference between both Twin Flames who are in a human body, since a student might likely be younger, but not always. This is additional friction compounded onto the two souls. In Earth years they are in varying levels of human development that rub against each other uncomfortably, and sometimes even human generational gaps. The exceptions are if the younger soul is evolving rather quickly and maturely, while the older soul is tolerant and patient with the level the younger human soul is at.
Twin Flames might also be from different states in North America or they might be from different countries. They can also be the same gender. It can be a gay relationship or same sex attraction (homosexual twin flame or heterosexual twin flame), friendship, parent or sibling connection. There is an equal balance of both the masculine and feminine energy in both twin flames regardless of gender in this lifetime.
Twin Flame Separation – Why It Happens and Why It Haunts Us
Twin flame separation is not like typical relationship breakdown.
When we separate from our flames it’s as though our entire lives have been shattered. The deep and intense love that we feel towards our twin flames makes any form of split agonizing and almost unbearable.
Having received so many stories from lost souls over the years about twin flame separation, I thought I’d finally write about this topic. Being in a twin flame relationship myself, I’ve experienced how overwhelming, intimidating and terrifying it can get, and how insufferable it is to separate – even just temporarily.
Before you read on, please ensure that you aren’t in a co-dependent or unhealthy relationship. The difference between twin flame relationships and co-dependent relationships, is that twin flames relationships are defined by respect, equality, negotiation, and healthy boundaries. On the other hand, co-dependent relationships are characterized by feeling trapped, unequal, devalued and reliant on the other for a sense of self-worth. Unfortunately, it is possible to confuse co-dependency with twin flame love. Please be careful about confusing the two.
Sets Of Famous Twins Who Are Both Gay
Scientists are divided on the issue of homosexuality in twins. Some scientists believe that there’s a genetic code that determines whether some sets of identical and fraternal twins will be gay, while others believe that that DNA is not a factor at all. Many twins, however, identify as gay, lesbian, bisexual, and queer.
Who is the most famous set of gay twins? Tegan Quin and her sister, Sara, are both openly gay. Their band, Tegan and Sara, has released seven studio albums. Their latest album, „Heartbreak,“ debuted at number three on the Billboard charts. They also collaborated with Coolhaus to create an ice cream sandwich flavor called, „Til Death Do Us Part“ in favor of same-sex marriage.
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Who said their connection is karmic to begin with?
I personally don’t like the word karmic to describe the current partner of your Twin Flame, because well quite honestly who am I to judge over the soul contract of two other people.
I might recognize my own soul contract with someone but that doesn’t automatically make the contract the other has with someone else karmic or worse what most want to imply by using the word ‘karmic’ for their twin’s current partner – inferior to your own connection.
As long as you think in high/low, or superior and inferior you are still caught in old paradigm 3D thinking. These classifications belong to the separation and ego consciousness, they literally do not exist in the 5th dimensional frequency because separation no longer exists there – there is only ONENESS and if everything is one there can’t be inferiority/superiority in the elements of that oneness.
In fact I would say that in true Twin Flame connections the third party is a soulmate not only to the twin but also to you. Now the first time another Twin Flame teacher suggested to me that the newly wed wife of my twin (for lack of a better descriptive word as I have even come to a point of letting go of the Twin Flame label) could be a soulmate connection, I violently rejected it. Pretty much like you are probably now – I was still thinking in romantic terms and if you look around the Twin Flame community then a soulmate is considered a relationship that could last a lifetime and karmic connection are lucky if they last a couple of years.
So then it better be karmic, because then at least you can wait it out – right?
Probably even considering the idea that the current partner of your Twin Flame is a soulmate connection, brings up fear that if that were true you would have to forget about reuniting with your twin in this lifetime because a soulmate you figure can make them happy.
Granted, it’s second best maybe but if you are still in old 3D paradigm thinking then you know you are better than the karmic – but your twin just might choose the soulmate over you. This has everything to do with trying to interpret soul contracts to the limited frame of reference that the old 3D template romantic love relationship provides. It’s what happens when people learn higher spiritual concepts and then try to fit them in their current limited 3D understanding of life and love.
For example have you ever noticed all these Divine Feminines moaning that they would rather be with a soulmate (because it is easier) or that if the Twin Flame doesn’t come through that they hope they will meet their soulmate etc? It’s all romantic illusion and an indication that they aren’t ready for the union they crave. Plus all these false beliefs or misunderstanding of soul connections bites you in the butt when they don’t only apply to your love life – but are applicable as well to the Twin Flame. Because then they might also prefer to stay with a soulmate thinking it’s easier, etc. etc.
The real reason why most twins want their Twin Flames current partner to be karmic, is because that still gives them hope that they haven’t lost the other person to someone else for good.
It’s avoiding fear of loss and maintaining a sense of control to label the third party connection karmic, because following this train of thoughts if it were a soulmate connection you would have to let them go and move on with your own life (which you have to do regardless the label of the connection).
If you still think this Twin Flame connection is about a ‘boy meets girl’ love story or any other LGBT variation thereof, please download the free Inner Union Soul Alchemy manuscript in which I explain the true purpose of this journey and that is not hooking up with some guy or girl for life. Romance is possible, but it’s the cherry on top. The main course on the Twin Flame menu is a mind-boggling, life altering, yummy delicious transformation of YOU that you were not even aware was possible to begin with.
Let me tell you life on the other side of the Twin Flame journey is amazing, whether you end up with your twin or not. Imagine what heaven on earth looks like and it will be even better than that – yes even without the twin by your side.
You might doubt that because at this moment you are in excruciating pain, thinking you will never be happy without the twin in your life. I thought this as well – when my twin shut the door in my face without a warning and did a complete 180 on me in regards to his feelings for me, I was crushed. I had no will to live anymore. If I didn’t have such a high sense of responsibility as a single mom of three children I would have maybe checked out. I was in SO MUCH pain. Instead I faced that pain and owned it. I realized that I had already been carrying the pain inside of me for eons and eons that was now being triggered by this other person, but it wasn’t him causing it – as I will explain further on in this article.