The best gay sex positions: How do gay men have sex?

As anyone who’s ever had gay sex, thought about gay sex or watched gay sex will know there are endless combinations possible gay sex positions. But where to start? What feels best? How do you gay men have sex?

This guide to the four most accessible – and we reckon most pleasurable – gay sex positions will help get you started.

Before we get stuck into how to stick it in, we’d always condone safer sex and recommend you read our guide to PrEP, and always use condoms when having sex.

11 Best Gay Sex Positions (As Written By A Gay Man)

For whatever reason, heterosexual men and women seem to believe that gay men like myself hold secrets to everything wonderful and fabulous in life, including when it comes to knowing the best sex positions (and how to have truly great sex).

Before diving into the juicy stuff, I have a confession to make. Being a man of integrity and what not, I feel it’s my duty to admit that we gay men don’t really corner the market on sex positions. We are simply talented at naming and performing the positions (thankyouverymuch).

Yes, we gay men are quite proud to be known as the „Lewis and Clark“ of sexual exploration/creation of new gay sex positions.

And of course, a few of these we take no credit for, other than credit for fully enjoying these positions to their fullest.

 11 Best Gay Sex Positions (As Written By A Gay Man)

Sex Positions For Gay Men – Top 10!

Gay sex offers a wide range of possibilities and positions where pleasure is always guaranteed. This pleasure lies in the variety of fun and exciting positions two men can experience together. The key here is being open to experimentation and trying new and different sexual positions.

Are you looking for the best sex positions for gay men? If so, this article is for you! Here we have collected a list of 10 of our BEST sex positions for a men (pictures included!), allowing for optimal pleasure and intense orgasms. So boys, you ready?

Are you wondering what do gay men like in bed? Let’s start with Doggy-style lying-down, a classic and infallible anal sex position. Have you ever tried doggy style? Well this position, you could say, is a more comfortable ‘type’ of doggy-style. Follow these simple steps:

The spooning sex position is another classic good sex position for gay men. This Kamasutra inspired position is a great position to try when you’ve just woken up. The active man, will enter from behind while also masturbating his partner, guaranteeing MAXIMUM pleasure. This is a position where both the ‘top’ and ‘bottom’ can enjoy equal pleasure. In addition to the fiery-ness of this position, it is also incredibly intimate!

Why is this position so popular though? Well it’s because this sex position is sure to guarantee deep and pleasant penetration that, alternated with kisses and masturbation, can be delicious for both men involved.

The drunk boat sex position is great for deep penetration and complete anal stimulation. This position should be performed with medium or low intensity so as not to hurt your partner. Follow these simple steps:

Let’s call this position the ‘mirror of pleasure’. This is an ideal position for an intimate and sexually charged experience:

The „macho doggy-style“ is a very popular gay man sex position. This position is exactly the same as normal doggy-style, except for the fact that both men are standing. The man in the front receiving should lean at an angle for optimal pleasure.

Face to face. Although simple to do, this sex position for gay men does require endurance and strength from the man on top. Feel free to alternate with other positions to better manage energy and prolong pleasure.

Are you looking for different and fun ways to have anal sex? If so, this position is for you!

Are you looking to experience some delicious anal penetration while also being able to kiss and experience intimacy with your partner? If that’s the case, lie on your back and lift your legs over your partner’s shoulders. Once he enters you, providing you are a little flexible, he will be able to kiss you while also deepening penetration!

Even though there are many more sexual positions for gay men, the most pleasant and popular is called ‘the fusion’. Here, the bottom will take control, setting the rhythm and taking full advantage of how deep he goes. His free hands will allow him to masturbate his partner, while also caressing and having great vision of this pleasurable experience!

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The 10 Best Bedrooms Positions for Getting It On With Another Guy

If you’re single, how do you prevent awkward and boring sex from ruining chemistry with that really cute guy from Grindr?

If you’re in a longterm relationship, how do you keep the sex fun and exciting with each anniversary? Even the most seasoned casanovas need to know their fair share of sex positions to keep things interesting between the sheets, which is why we’ve put together this handy (and illustrated) guide to the best gay ones.

Before we get started, it’s important to establish some gay sex ground rules:

Now that we’ve got that covered, it’s time to learn more about the best gay sex positions.

The 10 Best Bedrooms Positions for Getting It On With Another Guy

Anal sex positions

Most of these gay sex positions are anal sex positions, but there are some non-penetrative sexual positions at the end too.

If you’re after more anal sex reading, here’s another general guide on how to have anal sex that covers douching, communication, lube and some other stuff.

Top, bottom or versatile?

We’re going to look at gay sex positions from the point of view of a top and a bottom.

If you’re versatile (and we encourage you all to be), lucky you, you can do both. In some gay sex positions the top leads the action, and in some the bottom takes the lead.

Interested in finding out why some guys are top and some are bottom? Here’s a scientific study from 2017 that talks about it.

Try the gay missionary position first

This gay sex position may sound boring, but it’s not, we promise. It’s one of the easiest positions for a top, and not especially difficult for a bottom.

During gay sex, if you’re engaging in foreplay and sucking his cock while he’s laying down, keep licking, kissing and sucking as you move your mouth down towards his balls.

Then go further, toward his perineum (the bit between his balls and his ass) and then his butthole.

Bottom: if you’re enjoying this, give him a few moans and wriggle your asshole a bit closer to where his tongue is.

If he’s keen, keep eating his ass. Open his ass cheeks and get in there deep with your tongue. If you can, and body shapes and sizes depend on this, lift his ass up a bit.

Seeing eye to eye

The gay missionary position is good for maintaining eye contact and clear communication during anal sex.

You can penetrate your partner slowly and carefully, keeping an eye on the target. You can build up a momentum that you’re both comfortable with. And it’s easy to get back in if you slip out, because you can see everything clearly.

Now try riding a guy’s cock

If you’re new to getting f**ked, or nervous about taking a big dick, this gay sex position could be good for you, because as a bottom, you’ll have the control.

It’s a good one for gaining confidence when it comes to taking cock – if it starts to hurt, you can slow down, and lower yourself onto him at your own pace.

You need a certain amount of athleticism to be able to ride your man. You want to be going up and down, and slightly back and forth, at the same time. A bit like riding a horse.

If you’re bigger built than your top, or if you’re a bigger guy in general this one can be tricky as gravity is against you. Be careful not to crush the chap under you or he’ll be at risk of losing his erection.

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Missionary

A classic position for straight couples, missionary is pretty common for gay partners as well. In this position, the bottom lies on his back with his legs spread apart in the air while the active partner lies on top so the couple is face-to-face. Penetration from this angle allows for intimate eye contact and kissing, and the bottom can wrap his legs around the top to anchor thrusting. While not necessarily the kinkiest position, missionary is great for more inexperienced or vanilla couples. If you slip a pillow under the small of the bottom’s back for extra support, they can lay comfortably without having to strain to keep their legs in the air.

Doggy Style

Another classic gay sex position is doggy style. While potentially less intimate than missionary, doggy style allows you and your partner to explore each other in a new way. Doggy style really puts the top in control, so it’s the perfect position for more dominant tops and submissive bottoms. In doggy style, the bottom gets on all fours while the top kneels behind him. Holding on to the bottom’s hips for support, the top enters the bottom from behind. Penetration from this angle can feel harder and deeper for bottoms, and doggy style can be better for prostate stimulation for some men. Doggy style is good for couples of all experience levels, but it can require extra stamina from tops.

Cowboy

For couples with more dominate bottoms and tops who like to take it easy, cowboy is the ideal gay sex position. In the cowboy position, the top sits or lies back while the bottom straddles him across his pelvis facing forward, either in a kneel or squatting position. The cowboy position gives the bottom control over penetration, which can help to achieve prostate stimulation. The top can also thrust into the bottom from this position, shifting the dynamic between dominate and submissive partner. Cowboy is a good position for couples of all experience levels, but bottoms should be prepared for a workout.

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The Bodyguard

If the traditional horizontal positions have lost their excitement, try a standing position. Standing positions allow both partners an increased range of motion compared to horizontal positions—you can move together, or one can remain still while the other establishes and varies the rhythm. The most classic standing position, sometimes known as “the bodyguard,” is when the bottom faces away from the top and the top enters from behind. For anchorage, the bottom should hold onto a nearby wall, table, or other surface. Because the bodyguard position is more accommodating in small spaces or in the outdoors, they’re great for more adventurous couples who want to take sex out of the bedroom.

Pirate’s Bounty

The flashy name may make this position sound more complicated than it is, but the pirate’s bounty is a must-have in any gay sex wheelhouse. In this position, the bottom lies down his back, shifting his pelvis so that one leg is down and the other is up in the air. The active partner kneels, facing the bottom, and puts the bottom’s elevate leg on his shoulder as he enters him. This angle allows for a deep penetration. If the bottom is flexible, the top can push the elevated leg towards the bottom’s head for an even deeper and more intimate experience.

Spooning

Spooning is one of the most intimate gay sex positions. Both partners lay on their sides, the top on the outside as the “big spoon.” The top enters the bottom from behind, with the bottom’s top leg elevated to allow for entry. For an extra deep penetration, the top can hook his elbow under the bottom’s elevated knee for easier access. This position involves a lot of close body contact, making it a great option for couples looking for an intimate and sensual sexual encounter.

Suspended Congress

For the more adventurous and active gay couples out there, suspended congress is an exciting and erotic challenge. This position is designed to get you out of bed and work on your cardio too. In this position, the top stands and picks up the bottom, who wraps his arms around the top’s neck for support. The top then enters the bottom from this position, holding the bottom’s thighs in his arms to support the bottom’s hips against his pelvis. For extra support while thrusting, put the bottom’s back against a wall or other solid structure. For more fit couple, try a free-standing suspended congress for a real full-body workout.

Arch

While not necessarily the ideal position for less experienced bottoms, the arch position is great for gay couples looking to explore sex from a new perspective. To get into the arch position, bottoms lay face up and lifts his hips upward, while keeping his feet and the back of his neck planted on the floor. The top kneels facing the bottom, entering him by placing his pelvis underneath the bottom’s raised hips. This position requires some serious back flexibility in terms of the bottom’s role, which is why it’s not recommended for the inexperienced, but this angle of penetration can be intensely stimulating and pleasurable for both tops and bottoms.

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5. Back It In

Finally, it’s time for the bottom to do some work. This gay sex position requires the top to sit in a chair, bringing his knees up to his chest, allowing his penis to be outward and forward.

The bottom backs into the position, allowing the penis to enter him.

Once the penis is inserted, it’s time for the bottom to make it work by creating all the thrust and momentum.

6. Knee Up, Knee Up, Keep It Up

If you’ve never had your booty exposed, just know this gay sex position is about maximum exposure.

Think of it as a reverse child’s pose in yoga. The bottom lays down on a couch (bed, floor, table, hood of a car, etc.) while the top grasps the bottom’s ankles, calves or knees (whatever is comfortable for the bottom) and simultaneously pushes the legs back toward the bottom’s chest as the top inserts his penis. The more the legs get pushed back, the tighter the backside feels.

Variation: Bottom stays in the same position while the top lays perpendicular and sideways to the bottom.

7. Rock, Rock, Rockin‘ In The Rocking Chair

Thank goodness I never caught grams and gramps in this position, or I would have sworn off of sex altogether. Besides, this gay sex position isn’t for the frail or faint at heart.

Here’s how to do it: the top lays back pulling knees to chest. The bottom sits backward between the top’s legs, inserting top’s penis into himself.

Once comfortable and fully astride, the bottom begins a rhythmic motion of rocking back and forth to his liking.

9. See-Saw

This gay sex position requires the giving partner to be in shape (eh, a little ab definition wouldn’t hurt either), as they’ll be getting a heck of a workout. Also, a chair is required.

The top lies on the ground and props their calves up on a chair while keeping his body straight. The bottom straddles the top’s legs and inserts penis into his partner. At that point, either party can begin the rhythmic motion of their choosing.

11. I Can Fly

For this gay sex position, the top sits in a chair trying to keep his body as elongated as possible. The bottom straddles the top facing toward him or away from him (both require the bottom to be capable of extreme feats of balance).

If the bottom is facing the top, straddled and mounted, with top’s penis inside, the bottom leans back, allowing the top to grasp his wrists to facilitate balance. The bottom then lifts up his legs, and starts to fly through the air backward as the top controls the thrusting.

To fly like a superhero in this position, the bottom straddles the top, mounting and inserting top’s penis into himself. Once mounted, the bottom leans forward, thrusting his arms backward to the top so that top can grasp the bottom’s wrists. Once engaged, bottom lifts legs, flying forward with the greatest of ease, letting the top control the rhythm.

I’m not sure about you, but at this point I’m exhausted.

The thought of doing all of these may end up costing me $500 in chiropractor visits, plus an additional $1,000 in massages.

Nonetheless, enjoy and don’t break too many coffee tables, limbs, or wear out your libido by attempting all these gay sex positions in one evening!

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