When/How should you ask a guy out?

27F and have been crushing on a coworker for over a year. I know I know the saying… that’s why I held back for so long. Well now I realized it’s probably more than a crush and he’s reciprocating as well. He’s much older than me (mid 30s) and he seems a lot more confident than I am so I figured after the flirtatious exchanges he’d ask me out first. That never happened and now I’m coming into realization that this guy will probably never ask me out despite both of us having feelings for each other. My „friend“ gave me really chilling advice saying if I don’t ask him out now, there will be more options after COVID is over…. so now I’m thinking she is right and I will most likely loose chances with him if I continue to keep waiting for him to make a move. We are both in a professional setting and I know it’s not the best decision, but I’m not looking to stay there for very long. Should I take my chances and ask him out? How does one do this? I’ve never asked anyone out before…. how would a guy feel if a girl asked him out first? Also, how do I ask him out subtly without fully raising flags like this is a date date… but more like getting to know each other? COVID is making it even harder to do just that because coffee shops are closed.

Lots of my close friends told me not to pursue it but after explaining to them that this guy is legit my ideal guy and he’s one of the best people that I ever got to meet in my life; I feel like I would totally miss out if I don’t try but I’m so shy, introverted and not confident but he’s the complete opposite so I was hoping he’d make the first move. We’ve done the most cliche flirting that you see on a romantic movie like passing out sticky notes, whispering at each others ears, and starting at each others eyes like no tomorrow… but it still hasn’t progressed to anywhere. Please give some advice 🙂

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Just hit him up saying “Hey so I know this is random, but do you want to go on a coffee date sometime?”

I have his number yes. AHHHHHH Omg I’m dying just you saying that. I need the courage to say it.

Thank you :)))) Yeaah our feelings come from a good spot and it’s not like a dirty relationship that everyone seems to think when they think about office romance except Jim and Pam because they’re goals for me lol. We also talk for hours! He’s such a good guy but I think he’s just cautious because I am younger (he’s always brought it up). How do I be clear about my intentions? I want him to know I’m interested (at this point its kind of obvious even if I don’t say it but I heard guys are dense at getting things lol)…

You can ask him out, and he may say yes, but he will also have to think about his job too.

Are you a co-worker or a subordinate? Guys who are working are really concerned about getting in trouble with the women/bosses that they work with. So he may say no, because he doesn’t want to have problems at work. There may be other reasons too that are more personal to him. As for work, there is alot of risk dating co-workers, which is a sad reality.

That’s what will probably go through his head. If you just asking him, you will probably make his month at least. Most guys don’t get asked out by women, so you asking is only a good thing for your chances, but be prepared for him to say he can’t for whatever reason. Good luck, I hope he says yes.

Both of us are very cautious people. I meant it when I said this was something that I’ve thought about a million times in my head and I still can’t seem to convince myself to drop it. That’s my fear as well him thinking that there’s too much issues that it might cause at work even though we share the same feelings for each other. The other half of me just keep saying for me to wait until I find another job and ask him out on my last week… but when is that going to happen? lol. That’s also the reason why I wanted a more subtle way to ask him out and not simply saying let’s go on a date because it’s so forward and like you said I might end up getting rejected. I would rather throw out a generic open invitation to get to know him more but not sure how to do this… everything is closed because of COVID.

Short guys have a better chance after thirty

28/M I’m 5’2 and it blows. About once a year I hook up with someone (usually one party or the other regrets it) but finding someone to date or hook up with repeatedly is like looking for water in the Sahara. Any chance my prospects might improve over the next couple of years? I’m down to date divorcees and people with kids (as long as I don’t have to deal with any drama).

EDIT: While I appreciate the advice, please beleive me that I am confident, well-dressed, fit, well-employed, and generally a normal dude of above-average looks and personality (because if you’re as short as I am, you have to be). I am not looking for personal advice, I am trying to determine if my awesome personality will start doing anything for me later in life, because aside from my own satisfaction, being confident only goes so far in the dating scene.

EDIT: Thanks you all for reading. This has gotten way more attention than I anticipated, and I thank you all for your responses. The general feeling I’m getting is that if I remain fit, positive, and patient, I can expect people to be more open to dating me in my thirties. A strong runner up for second is that, because personality is everything and nobody cares about height in dating, I must have no confidence and a shitty personality, and while I maintain this is not the case, that, too, is a valid argument. Thank you all for your time and opinions.

My perception is that there’s an excess of women who care a lot about height and a shortage of men who are tall enough to suit them; conversely, there’s a shortage of women who don’t care about height and an excess of men who by some women’s metrics aren’t tall enough. As time passes and a cohort ages, the women who don’t care much about height tend to find partners and leave the dating pool, which is fairly easy since they have plenty of guys to choose from, leaving behind an even larger excess of women who are holding out for taller men.

A complicating factor is dating across wide age ranges. Older men dating younger women are often taller, since sufficiently tall men are scarce at any age, while women holding out for taller men are numerous at any age, including when they’re younger; many such younger women are more willing to compromise on age than on height, dating older, taller men rather than available men their own age who are shorter. The flip side of this is that older women who don’t care much about height are in an excellent position to date younger men, since single shorter men exist in excess at all ages. Eventually short men get to the point where cougars consider them too old, and their options are greatly reduced. Simultaneously, older women who are looking exclusively for taller men complain the loudest about how all the good men are either taken (implicitly excluding short men from „good men“) or else dating younger women.

Some people relax their standards as they get older; this is put forth as one of those signs of maturity which is lacking in younger people. In practice, fundamental standards of attractiveness don’t change much, except for changing standards for age, with women in their forties typically being more willing to date men with graying, thinning hair than women in their twenties. The other notable exception is a shift and relaxation of standards when people transition between „I’m just looking to have fun“ and „Okay, enough fun, now I’m looking for a life partner.“ In some cases, „fun“ is replaced by „post-graduate education“ or „career development.“ It’s possible that some women become more willing to date shorter men as these priorities shift; in practice, I expect these would mostly be women who were always at least theoretically willing to date shorter men but were previously deferring settling down (and perhaps putting off dating for years at a time, or else restricting themselves to FWB situations and casual pickups) until the right time, and now’s the right time. In many cases it’s not really so much that these women relax their standards as that they turn more attention to serious dating than when they were younger. Of course, some will be exclusively interested in taller men, but it’s a notable late introduction of women who are flexible with respect to height into the dating pool.

Your best bet is probably these older women looking to settle down at long last. You’ll have a distinct advantage if you’re well-educated, with a decent career and willing to have kids.

expect these would mostly be women who were always at least theoretically willing to date shorter men but were previously deferring settling down (and perhaps putting off dating for years at a time, or else restricting themselves to FWB situations and casual pickups) until the right time, and now’s the right time. In many cases it’s not really so much that these women relax their standards as that they turn more attention to serious dating than when they were younger.

I think this true, and while it is not worth getting too bent out of shape over anymore than „thin people and pretty people generally have an easier time,“ it is a very backhanded compliment for a short man to hear that he is a woman’s second, non-sexual choice for a partner.

The devil is in the details, it always is, but take a moment to think about how you would feel to hear that you’re who girls go to after they’re done „having fun.“

counter-point: My standards for what I find to be attractive have changed dramatically since I became an adult. To the point that women I would have reject out of hand at 18, I now consider to be exceptionally desirable.

Also I think, you’ve failed to account for tall women in your analysis. I recently had a discussion with a woman who is 6’0″ who was discussing her daughter, the dating issues associate with being a taller woman, he sister who is 6’2″ and how her dating preferences changed over time. Suffice to say that she expressed feelings of insecurity associated with her height as a young woman and as a result avoided any activity which drew attention to her height. Such activities included dating shorter men. As she gained more self confidence and maturity she no longer avoided these activities or dating men shorter than herself.

Which is how I imagine a lot of men feel about dating an overweight woman while still being sexually attracted.

I know I don’t speak for all men, but this honestly has fuck all to do with my preferences for a healthy weight partner. I’ve been „mismatched“ with dates where I was severely underdressed for a date – didn’t give a damn.

Thank you so much for recognizing that I am a secure and well-developed person who is dealing with a situation that is beyond his control. I’m not really into larger women but at this point I’d be willing to be in a relationship that was more about companionship because it doesn’t really seem like I’m gonna be able to date anyone that turns me on. I guess I’d rather have a not-very-passionate relationship with someone who cares about me that just be alone. And as for what people think, it would probably be, “it’s about time he figured out what is and is not possible”

You clearly came here looking for a fight. You knew perfectly well what the response was going to be here. What were you hoping to instigate, and why did you want to wallow in the negativity this thread would obviously have?

To everyone else: you’re all remarkably predictable in your responses. For some reason, everyone has a strong need to believe that the only conceivable reason a 5’2″ guy would have trouble dating is because he’s a shit person. In your books, any short guy who expresses any thoughts short of wholehearted celebration of how society treats his height has a complex, and ipso facto you can read into that lack of celebration as the main reason he’s had dating problems.

This is called gaslighting in any other context. Yes, the main reason he’s having trouble dating is that he’s short, and the fact that your aunt’s dog’s petsitter’s brother is a 4’10“ guy who slays doesn’t have much bearing on that.

3) To answer your actual question, as a 33 year old, 5’3″ guy: yes, it has gotten better. Not so much because women are any less shallow on the height topic, but because men are a bundle of attributes, and with more years, I’ve had more opportunities to work on those other attributes. When I was last single, I could realistically bring home someone new and who I found attractive a couple times per month.

Continue working on self improvement. Particularly as a short guy, make sure you’re muscular, wear well-fitting clothes (almost certainly they’ll all have to be tailored), and project extroversion. That’s on top of everything else that can improve a man’s attractiveness.

I’m 5’2”. I was with super tall guys my whole life and now finally at 32 i know i want a man much closer to my own height. I love not looking up at him, i love dancing cheek to cheek, holding hands without the jerky tug, his hands around my waist. And i love hugs where i don’t have to bend my head down against his chest and like curl in. I love standing straight up and feeling like an equal, not a tiny doll. My recent ex was 5’11”, he was a bit too tall for me. So maybe people learn better what they like as they get older, and it’s not so much standards dropping (short guys are not worse than tall guys) as people just finally learning about their own preferences. Where that diverges from what media tells us, it can take a little while to figure out – so i think yes, after 30 it should be easier for short men to find love.

I’m female, 32, 5’8”, objectively attractive. I’ve dated dudes who were 6’5”, I’ve dated dudes who were 5’3”. Been attracted to both equally. The biggest problem is close-mindedness, people who are hung up on some idea of what their ideal partner will look or be like.

If you are really struggling, I would consider moving to a large and diverse urban community. That area attracts people who are more open-minded by default.

I live in Denver. It’s a moderately sized, liberal city. I’ve lived in Tel Aviv Israel, which is an international megalopolis. Things there were a little better, but people there tend to be shorter, or have short parents, which can shape expectations. I’ve been considering moving for some time, guess I oughtta.

Married woman here, I don’t understand the height thing, either. I never based my attraction on height.

I think you will do best to target women your height or shorter. I don’t think it’s going to get easier because 5’2″ is 8″ below average. It’s a very significant difference.

Height matters a lot to me but not in the way most people think of. I like a partner to be within an inch or two of my height so kissing and sex „line up“ well. Meaning anyone significantly shorter OR taller is a concession to me. I came to this conclusion after dating a 6’5″ guy and hating it. Our bodies did not match up.

I totally get that. I havent met a lot of women under 5’2, tho, and those i’ve met are usually taken

My experience is that people (guys) who pin their entire lack of dating success on one physical characteristic tend to end up in a spiral of defeatism and frustration (particularly if that one characteristic is immutable and totally beyond their control).

Interesting. Do you believe that the frustration stems from ongoing lack of success despite effort, causing an expectation of rejection rather than a fear of it—over time?

I don’t care about my height. Women care about my height. I could date a lady of any height no problem, I’m solid in my masculinity. Women fee large and unfeminine next to a smaller man.

I’m not defensive about my height. I’m defensive about the constant insinuations that i’m not confident and insecure. My inner game is locked tight.

If you are somewhat successful, I think yes, you may see an improvement among women slightly younger as you cross 30. A great personality and confidence combined with some professional success would be attractive to many women, especially if they are a few years behind you in career trajectory. I think you would appeal to women who want an equal partner if life, not someone to make them feel like a doll to be babied. I think you should keep an eye toward young professionals who can hold their own and appreciate that you have your shit together. Best of luck to you!

I’m down to date divorcees and people with kids (as long as I don’t have to deal with any drama).

It’s as if you’re saying, you’re low on the totem pole but you’re willing to consider divorcees and people with kids.

Well for a dude who’s never had a serious relationship, I’d rather date someone with a simpler past, but at nearly thirty I realize that’s not realistic anymore. Unless I date younger women, which would be great but again, not realistic.

Short guys have a better chance after thirty

17 Practical Gay Dating Tips for the New Age

One: Turn off your Grindr profile before the date begins, even if that’s where you found him. That little „pop“ sound while you give him flowers is a romantic buzz kill.

Two: You’re „Checking In“ at the restaurant where you’ve made dinner reservations? Seriously? Nothing like telling 5,000 Facebook friends the location of your intimate rendezvous.

Three: Do not „friend“ your date on Facebook before or after the initial meeting. If you’re not a good match (and dates are like new restaurants; about one in eight survive), you’re both going to share that awkward moment of „Do I un-friend him or keep reading about his ‚Why do I always meet losers?'“ updates.

Four: Even though gay men love to label everyone, they despise being labeled. So whether he’s a Bear, Twink, Twunk, Cub, Daddy, Dilf, Otter, Chub, Gym Rat, Gym Bunny, or any of the other zillion names we give one another, only address him in generic terms, like handsome, sexy, hung. If he’s 22 years old and wears glasses and weighs 108 pounds and says „for some reason people tend to think I’m a Twink,“ feign surprise and say „men are so into labels.“ Then help him lift his martini glass to his lips and move on.

Five: If you’re over thirty and at least four years older than your date, don’t be surprised if he calls you Daddy. Take it as a compliment; do not take it as a reason to pick up the check.

Six: Unless he can juggle or tap dance in bed, „versatile bottom“ means only one thing, so be prepared to take charge if things go well. If you’re lying when you call yourself a „versatile top,“ either call it quits now or start working on your oral communication skills.

Seven: If he insists on taking „important calls“ several times during your date, don’t automatically think he’s blowing you off. In today’s complicated world, he might be calling work, his sitter, or his ex-wife to see if she can pick up the kids. Chill out, and use the time to call your sponsor for encouragement.

Eight: In the old days, it was common, and common sense, to say that, if you sleep with someone, you are also sleeping with everyone he’s slept with. Nowadays, it’s common sense to remember that, if you sleep with someone who’s in a 12-Step program, you are also sleeping with everyone in his Home Group. Be prepared to be judged by all the members of the orgy.

Nine: If you’ve met the guy online and have never met in person, and if his entire chat so far has been about how amazingly hot you are and how amazingly much he’s into you and how he’s quite certain you’re the guy for him, he will hate you within 20 minutes of your date and you will never hear from him again. If you request an explanation, he will call you a stalker and block you from any social media sites you might share.

Ten: While it’s nice to have a grasp of current events and knowledge of local culture, it’s no longer a first-date pre-requisite. However, if you don’t have an immediate answer for „Do you want to get married?“ and „How many kids would you like to have?“ the date has just ended; don’t even bother to take your coat off.

Eleven: Contrary to popular belief, opinions are not like assholes, because in today’s gay world, assholes are glorious and sexy and displayed prominently in photos sent to you from potential suitors. Opinions on a date are more like your lesbian best friend: We know she’s important to you and we’re glad you have her, but we have no idea why you’d want to introduce us to her on a first meeting and turn the evening into a serious downer.

Twelve: If you do opt to discuss current events, avoid anything so controversial it will destroy potential chemistry, like Crimea, Obama’s job performance, or the relevance of HBO’s „Looking.“

Thirteen: Fashions change, so know the basics: No flip-flops, no shaving, and, even if it is after Memorial Day, absolutely no white underwear.

Fourteen: If you like the guy and want things to go well, put everything out on the table: HIV status, views on monogamy, and, for Florida residents, guns.

Fifteen: It’s a sign of a true gentleman if you walk him to his door and he says it’s too soon for you to come inside. It’s also more than likely a sign that he still lives with his on-again off-again ex.

Sixteen: If, in the heat of the moment, you do find yourself in bed together after the date, remember to keep the foreplay going for at least 30 minutes. This allows ample time for intimate kisses, exploring each other’s body, and for the Cialis to kick in.

Seventeen: Sadly, gay men are self-centered and narcissistic, so instead of talking about your abusive childhood upbringing and triumph over Legionnaires disease, read this piece over and over and out loud until I’m so happy I wet myself. We’re a match!

17 Practical Gay Dating Tips for the New Age

[Serious] Best Dating Advice on Tinder Reddit (r/Tinder)

The beauty of Tinder Reddit (r/tinder) is tons of people can anonymously share their online dating woes and triumphs.

The downside is that there’s so much well-meaning advice on r/Tinder, it’s hard to know what are actual ProLifeTips and what’s “nice guy” bs.

How does a casual r/Tinder lurker parse all these opinions and actually glean some useful info?

We’ve put together some of the best dating advice on Tinder Reddit to guide you on your quest for Tinder success.

[Serious] Best Dating Advice on Tinder Reddit (r/Tinder)

15 Unexpectedly Candid Tips For Straight Guys From Reddit’s Gay Men

Move over, Maxim… the new go-to advice gurus for straight dudes are the gay men of Reddit.

An AskReddit thread titled „Gay men of Reddit, what advice do you have for Straight Men of Reddit?“ is full of useful advice and juicy tidbits, offering suggestions about everything ranging from girlfriends‘ gossip habits to plumbing. 

The Huffington Post pulled some of our favorite pieces of user-submitted advice. 

Because this is Reddit, we can’t guarantee the people dispensing this advice are all, in fact, gay men. But the sentiment is clear, and the advice is useful regardless of who it comes from.

„Like three times a week turn your ps4 off over night but use rest mode. your games will be updated and it wont over work.“ — longjohnsmcgee

„Don’t be afraid of butt stuff. It’s mind blowing if done right.“ — whateverimbored

„Listen to women. They may not be telling you things expecting you to fix the problem. They might just want you to listen and show empathy.“ — Simpawknits

„Don’t be afraid to be openly affectionate toward your buds gay or straight! Just because you hug a friend or put your arm around them doesn’t make you one of those queer-mo-sexuals.“ — Iamgoofy

„Eat lots of pineapple and honey if you want your girl to swallow.“ — xavierdc

„As long as a gay friend isn’t crushing on you, we’re really good at helping you figure out if a girl is right for you or if you’re just blinded by pussy. We have a special ability with hot women called, ‚You have no power here!‘ and we find out very quickly which ones become hell to deal with if they can’t wrap you around their finger.“ — BrobearBerbill

„Re-read the game of thrones series, things are much clearer the second time.“ — genericka

„[W]e hear a lot from your girlfriends. Like, a lot. If we’re close, she’ll tell us the whole story. And one thing I’ve learned from woman I know/hardly know/have literally met that night, it’s that dick size doesn’t matter. Most women and gays would much prefer a guy who knows what he’s doing than someone who just sits on his high horse because his dick’s above average. And yeah, there are size queens, but they aren’t important.“ — itriedtoenice

„When it gets really cold outside, like below freezing, open the cabinets where your sink pipes are, and set the faucet to drip. This will keep your pipes from freezing and bursting. Also, after walking your dog, wipe their feet off when they come inside so they don’t ingest any road salt they may have picked up on their paw.“ — KeatingOrRoark

„Don’t treat your gay friends any differently than any of your other friends. If you’re physically affectionate with your other friends but actively avoid doing so with your gay friend, we notice. If you have no trouble walking into a public bathroom with your other friends, but wait until your gay friend is done before going in, we notice.“ — thegreatpablo

„Try to stop worrying too much when interacting with women you fancy; I’ve known a fair few of my straight friends incapable of flirting with women, whereas I’ve had to turn down the same women without even realising I was seeming flirtatious because I was just talking to them as I would anyone else without any agenda.“ — Birtyboy

„If you’re wearing sweatpants, everyone can see your dick.“ — accretion_disc

„Start saving for retirement early. A properly managed portfolio can save you a ton of hassle years down the line.“ — Bob_Bobinson

„As a gay man, I just want to say that it’s ok to express your emotions… It’s also ok to discuss your feelings and may even help your relationship with a significant other.“ — Cananbaum

„Don’t be scared to really get in and scrub the old sheriff’s badge, and there should always be a good scrubbing down there between your last number 2 and the next time you might have sex.“ — BrobearBerbill

15 Unexpectedly Candid Tips For Straight Guys From Reddit's Gay Men

Tinder Reddit Tip #1: “.”

Just because you want to immediately see a woman topless doesn’t mean she feels the same way.

In fact, even if you’ve got a fine bod, most women will tend to think you’re compensating for something else (brains, usually) if you’re half naked in your dating pics.

What Is It — Hispanic Dating Sites?

Do you know the term Hispanic is used for which ethnicity? Hispanics or Latinos are from America and are descendants of Spain.

When we talk about Hispanic singles, many stereotypes circulate in the community about them. When someone says Hispanic, what image comes to your mind. Hispanic women are often visualized as voluptuous women with curly hairs. At the same time, Hispanic men are often presented with caramel skin bearded faces. Let’s clear this misconception about Hispanic people. Hispanic singles come in all body shapes, hair textures, and skin color.

Most of the local Hispanic singles are presumed to know Spanish, whereas there is part of Hispanics originating from Brazil that doesn’t learn Spanish. They are fluent in Portuguese and English. The last stereotype, which is often shown on tv, is that Hispanic people can dance like professionals. That’s a bit true; not every Hispanic single move his or her body with music.

Let’s discuss the dating aspect of Hispanic singles. Various people show interest in dating a man or woman on online dating sites over the years. These are multiple Hispanic dating sites that cater to connecting local Hispanic singles and people from other ethnicities interested in dating Hispanic women or men. Some of the best Hispanic dating sites are Amigos, Match, EliteSingles, Amor, etc.

Gone are the days when your companions and family arrange blind dates for you, and you get connected with a date at a birthday party. Nowadays, people find their matches on online dating sites, and Hispanic dating sites are no different. There are Hispanic dating sites free to register, while others require a premium subscription for unlimited access. No matter what country you belong to, Brazil, Mexico, or Cuba, you can find Hispanic singles from the Hispanic race. Even if you are not of Hispanic origin but interested in dating a Hispanic girl or man, these sites welcome non-Hispanic members.

Where to Find Best Hispanic Dating Sites?

There are thousands of Hispanic origin globally, and some are visiting the same bars and clubs as you. There are possibilities that you can find your Hispanic match in the real world. How can you tell if Hispanic singles are compatible with you or not? The truth is you can not be confirmed about your chemistry unless you went on three to four dates. In this case, the best option where you can find Hispanic singles according to your preferences is Hispanic dating sites.

You can customize your match through different search filters. The site will find the most compatible match for you. Before dating a Hispanic man or girl, members can explore their profile to know whether they are compatible.

The streamline dating sites nowadays have members in millions who belong to different ethnicities. If you want to try the trusted platform, these regular dating sites are effective and safe. However, niche dating sites focus on a single category and narrow down your search. You can choose the Hispanic dating sites if your aim is dating a Hispanic girl and no-one.

There are tons of Hispanic dating sites that not only found you a date for a long term relationship. You can find casual relationships and buddies as well. The majority of the audience on the sites are Hispanic singles; however, other ethnic members are intrigued by dating Hispanic women or men.

You can choose the best Hispanic dating app or site that suits your preference and start exploring different profiles and choose the most compatible match. You can register in free Hispanic dating sites like PlentyOfFish or join the premium Hispanic dating sites club to experience dating sites full potential.

How Do Hispanic Dating Sites Work?

Hispanic dating sites are the mirror image of regular dating sites in terms of working. Why change a working strategy which is giving results all these years.

The difference is Hispanic dating sites narrow down search criteria. You don’t have to search through the thousand profiles to find a single Hispanic profile. You don’t need special ethnic search filters on these sites to find a compatible match.

You can meet Hispanic singles that share the same culture and mindset. Hispanic singles are interested in long term relationships, friendship, or casual relationships. These Hispanic dating sites are the best platform to create a robust Hispanic community that supports each other. The blogs on these sites are full of information about Hispanic cultures, misconceptions about them in society, and helpful tips for dating Hispanic women.

The Hispanic dating sites cater to other ethnicities who are interested in dating a Hispanic guy or guy. There are tons of Hispanic dating sites free of cost that let members experience a perfect dating experience. However, the premium Hispanic dating sites have exclusive features and communication tools that make members ‘ dating experience advanced.

Why Is It So Popular Right Now?

Why are Hispanic dating sites getting popular every day? As mentioned earlier that there are certain inaccurate stereotypes about dating Hispanic women and men. These misconceptions often become a hindrance to regular dating sites when non-Hispanic members judge Hispanic members. It’s challenging to find Hispanic members that are compatible with your preference on these dating sites.

Hispanic dating sites were introduced in the dating market and progress ever since, giving Hispanic people the best dating experience. At present, various Hispanic dating sites are focusing on different preferences.

Some cater to long term relationships. Some offer casual relationships, and some work as a social network for those who want to expand their social circles. There are Hispanic dating sites for those interested in dating Hispanic guys. These gay dating sites are exclusively for Hispanic men. All in all, Hispanic dating sites have to make Hispanic singles’ lives a lot easier by providing a platform full of similar mindset members.

The List of Best Hispanic Dating Sites

Hispanic dating sites are popular niches in the dating world. Below is the compilation of the best Hispanic dating sites for members interested in dating Hispanic singles.

AmoLatina is among the best Hispanic dating sites available. You can find thousands of members of Hispanic heritage. It’s an excellent dating platform to connect Hispanic singles through powerful matching algorithms.

It’s a fantastic Hispanic dating site that has helped members find a serious relationship for years. The advanced search filters on the site let members find matches of any ethnicity. The site has several features for standard members and unlimited access to all the tools for premium members.

If you know a little bit of Spanish, you will understand that amigos mean Friends. The site is perfect for expanding your friend’s network and also to find true love. The site doesn’t require registration for exploring the website. Once you are registered into the system, you can make a profile.

Similar to BlackPeopleMeet, this Hispanic dating site focuses on Hispanic heritage. Access for members is limited to only the US and Canada. The site offers some free features that help members find the best matches. However, premium members can have unlimited access to all features.

The site is perfect for those who want to find Hispanic matches that are well educated and professional. The member’s base of the site is mostly in their 30s. The Hispanic dating site has a comprehensive profile system that gives members an idea about other people’s personalities.

Advantages and Disadvantages of Hispanic Dating Sites

When you register at the dating sites for Hispanics, you find new Hispanic singles every day until you find the right one. You can communicate and interact with different people daily. It will help expand your social circle and help you interact with colorful personalities on the Hispanic dating sites.

The best part is Hispanic dating sites suggest compatible matches that are based on advanced matching systems. The Hispanic dating sites collect data about your last searches and profile information to find the best match.

Dating sites for Hispanic not only provide you with opportunities to find the love of your life. The dating sites are full of members who are ready to be your friend or travel partners. You can locate someone who shares your interest and is prepared to talk for hours on a shared interest.

Online dating sites have a convenient platform when it comes to accepting and rejecting. You can reject a profile, and the other person would never know about it. If you don’t want to talk to a person, you can ignore their message, which is signal enough that you are not interested.

Although Hispanic dating sites or overall online dating sites are detached from emotions, the connection tools like video and audio calls make up for them.

How to Choose Your Hispanic Dating Site?

If you are looking for Hispanic singles, your best option is Hispanic dating sites. These dating sites will provide you ample opportunities to find Hispanic singles. You can meet local Hispanic singles and non-Hispanic members as well. The possibilities of meeting new matches every day are far more than real life dating.

There are various dating sites for Hispanic in the market. The tricky part is to select which of them is worth trying. Before registering to a site, consider some aspects and compare it with other Hispanic dating sites.

The first aspect to consider or a key factor of Hispanic dating sites are communication tools. Does the Hispanic dating sites free version have communication access? Are there chat rooms on the site to meet new people? Can you video call other members?

Most of the Hispanic dating sites only let you interact with mutual matches. Other dating sites don’t have any condition of mutual match interaction. Choose the one you think suits your preferences. Gew of the Hispanic dating app or site, let you explore all the profiles, and send wink or messages to any members regardless of their membership status.

It’s important to know what kind of matching algorithm the site uses. Does the site find compatibility through questionnaires? Are there unique matching algorithms to find perfect matches?

The dating pool of Hispanic dating sites is an essential factor to consider. Large dating pool sites have better possibilities to find Hispanic singles.

Is It Safe to Use This Type of Sites?

The legit Hispanic dating sites mentioned in the review are all safe and have extensive privacy policies. These websites make sure that all members have a secure dating experience on the site.

Mostly all Hispanic dating sites let members block any members they don’t want to contact. Members can report any suspicious profile which is instantly considered by the moderators.

Members are registered after careful screening of each profile—some of the sites award validation badges for providing legal documents, increasing members’ credibility. The customer support team assists all members through their problems.

Some Tips for Newbies in Hispanic Dating Sites

There are thousands of members on a site, which means the competition is tough. It’s challenging to stand out from the crowd when using a Hispanic dating site. Here are some useful tips, especially for men, to create a memorable impression while dating a Hispanic woman.

In the real world, you are not able to score a job with an incomplete CV. What will be your initial thought if you see a profile with a low-quality picture and vague details? When looking at dating Hispanic women, it’s best to put some light on yourself. Create a detailed profile with all the pieces in place.

All photos on your profile should be of high resolution. A well-dressed picture with a big smile will surely score some visitors.

Sometimes you don’t even know what you prefer unless you try it out. The same goes for dating. Having an open-minded approach does a lot of good sometimes. Just because they are not according to your preference doesn’t mean they are not good. Give them a chance; maybe their opposite personality attracts more than others.

The first rule of online dating is not to share personal info with anyone online. Your full name, residential address, ID card, etc. should not be transmitted with your matches.

If you recognize there is chemistry between you and your match, don’t wait to grab the opportunity. Send them a message or a flirty wink to start communication. Dating Hispanic women means they are confident about what they want. If there is any spark between avail of the opportunity.


Hispanic dating sites have impressive databases with colorful people and their colorful cultures. Dating a Hispanic man or woman, you will observe they are friendly, soft-spoken, and passionate. Hispanic women are confident and live with men who can take control. If you want to meet Hispanic singles online, start by joining some online Hispanic dating sites.

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“If he wants to, he will make time”

Edit: kind of regretting making this post, I’m getting some very varied comments so I have no idea what to think. I texted him back, saying I’m busy now because I’ve made plans but to let me know when he’s free and I’ll let him know if I am. He said okay. I’m gonna leave it at that. If I hear from him again, we will see. But if not, that’s it I suppose.

This quote has been stuck in my head a bit. To make a long story short, I’ve been dating this guy for about a month and we recently had sex. While he was not much of a texter before, I feel like his texting has gone down since we had sex. He text me the day after a bit, and then nothing for 2 days.

So I text him yesterday asking if he wanted to watch a movie he mentioned wanting to see sometime this weekend. He takes 19 hours to respond to me. At this point I figured he was ghosting me and didn’t anticipate his response but he text me this morning saying he “doesn’t have time” for a movie soon but maybe we could get a drink together soon. My thought is, grabbing drinks and watching a 2 hour movie takes approximately the same amount of time, so I’m calling BS. I know he works insane hours and I don’t expect him to always be free but I feel like if he really wanted to, he would.

Where the hell do people find the energy (and $) to go out so often?

According to Instagram stories etc it seems that a lot of people go out a hell of a lot. Like friends party on a Friday, club on a Saturday, festival event on a Sunday.

I’m done with dating apps and always plan to start going out more but when it comes down to it I just get fkn exhausted, and every event ends up being $50 or more when you factor in tickets, drinks and Uber etc.

Even when I was overseas I wouldn’t enjoy going out multiple nights in a row… Do I just need to accept that I’m not someone who enjoys going out that often and needs time to recharge?

I will say this – sometimes forcing myself to go out gives me a boost in energy, other times it’s draining and I never really know which it will be until I’m out.

I decided to stop online dating. 36m

i gotta say, approaching an attractive person in real-time compared to swiping left/right is night and day. A rejection to my face was 10x hurtful than being ghosted. About 10 minutes into the conversation her way of expressing her lack of interest was to tell me to go back to my table lol. Yikes.

I’m not an expert in this field. Yeah, rejections suck; sucks terribly. But just think of it as a learning curve and/or in my case, a fun story to tell your friends at dinner. Unless you came off as a walking red flag, you just gotta laugh at the situation. You’ll always wonder with the shoulda, woulda, coulda and the what if’s unless you try again. Just think of rejections as what everyone else is experiencing and you’re not alone.