Eight Social Networking Sites for Men Who Love Men

We were contacted today by the founder of the soon to launch social network for gay men . It lead us to take a look around the gay male online social networking space and write the following overview of some of the current market leaders.

Niche social networks are likely a viable business because they allow specialized functionality and a subjective community feel as opposed to general interest sites that defer to either the lowest common denominator or the 15-25 year old demographic. Many people want to participate in social networks, but many people prefer networks set up for people they can relate to. That makes sense to me. From the proudly professional to the happily hedonistic, there may be something on this list for everyone – or at least everyone who’s a gay man.

As you can see by the following short profiles, these sites targeting a demographic with two traits in common (gay men) are all very different. Just as there’s a wide diversity of gay men in the world, there may well be ample room for a variety of gay male social networking sites – presuming they are able to build sufficient critical mass for monetization and financial viability.

I won’t pretend to speak for gay men and I’m sure there are some sites I’m missing, but these appear to be the most talked about gay male social networking sites online. You can take or leave my reviews of them. Maybe they’ll be a look inside a niche market for some of our readers and maybe they’ll be links of love for others. I tried to note the ones where the guys were particularly hot.

Jake calls itself the world’s largest gay professional community. It’s very British. The company reports almost 30,000 members sending two million messages to each other over the past year and attending exclusive real world events together. Unlike others that discourage independent commercial activity, this site encourages users to advertise their own businesses and directly monetize their involvement with the site.

There’s a professional but stylish look and feel to Jake. Users are encouraged to use their real names and free accounts offer only two photos – one for yourself and one for your company’s logo for example.

Paid accounts are £10 per month. Paid members can access the dating section of the site, get more storage in their internal mailboxes, get priority invitations to real world events and bring guests, gain access to “business briefings” and a number of other things.

ManJam is probably the most widely discussed of all of these social networking sites. It calls itself “a unique social network” but in fact it’s just one of many similarly branded copycat sites from JuxMedia Ltd. ManJam offers listings for rooms and houses for rent or to live in rent-free. There are listings from all around the world. There are job and business listings, many of which are in the Middle East. There are personal profile listings with text and video comments enabled for members. Free membership gets users access to rental listing details, IM, video and audio messaging. There is also a mobile component to ManJam. Profiles on this site support transgendered identities.

Premium members get entries in any of the categories moved up to the top of their respective listings. Paid accounts are $20 per month, $42 per quarter or $90 per year. This site looks solid enough and usability is decent, though I did get one 404. It doesn’t have the upper class affects of but ManJam is hardly for low baggers either. If hot unclothed chests are what you are looking for then ManJam may be where you want to go. Ohlalaguys

Ohlalalguys is a rebranded version of JuxMedia’s ManJam with even worse site navigation added. See also Bentlads, another one of these sites.

Lovetastic is explicitely not for men looking to hook up with hunks of burning love. “Finally, gay personals that treat you like a person,” the site says. Lovetastic says its goal is to bring together husbands. It used to be called Scene404 and the old landing page is pretty cute, in a dorky kind of way.

Free account holders can post profiles, browse the site and receive messages. Paid accounts, starting at $6 per month, enable users to send messages and chat.

Lovetastic’s interface is the cleanest, simplest and easiest on the eyes of any of these sites. In some ways it’s got more class than any of them. There are randomly generated interview questions for profiles and nude or shirtless pictures are prohibited. The site is ad free. If this is the site for you, you’ll likely know as soon as you visit it.

Connexion is LGBT online networking with a suffix. In addition to dating and events organizing the site focuses on low level political activity and news. There’s an RSS feed for news from the site. The site is a little awkward but not highly sexualized. Transgendered identity is supported on this site but not gender queer identities outside of those based on the Male/Female binary.

There aren’t paid memberships available for this nonprofit site but there are a handful of very unobtrusive ads. If you’re looking for news and political discussion in your LGBT social networking check out Connexion. OutEverywhere

OutEverywhere is a paid service for men and women in select countries around the world. It is very text intensive, site navigation is unbearable. This site has an emphasis on promoting real world events and venues. I couldn’t handle looking at it very much but there is a tag cloud if you scroll way down on the front page! Memberships are £19.95 for 6 months with a 28 free trial period.

DList looks like it was designed by someone from Gawker – in fact I’m sure it was. It’s a pretty straightforward social networking site with a good feature set. User blogs, topical site blogs to read, a music player on profile pages. It’s ad supported without premium accounts.

Without seeing more of what the community is like on DList, I imagine this site will be succeed if it can keep its costs down. It’s got all the basics taken care of and is attractive. BigJock

The site that inspired this post, BigJock, will launch its full featured version on early next month. The version that’s already up looks very nice though. It will include all the basics plus a Hot or Not picture rating component. The site will be free and ad supported. You can sign up now for an account and enter to win an iPod. BigJock has a long way to go before it can compete with the heavyweights above, but anything is possible and there are clearly niche approaches underway throughout the gay male social networking market. And that monkey logo is not to be missed.

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Also more ambiguous than the first base, the question what is 3rd base depends on how cool you are, so for you, it might be holding hands. But in all fairness, it basically just evolved as things constantly get amped up with newer generations. So third base used to mean touching of the private parts below the waist, and now a lot of people regard it as oral sex.

And with this terminology, logically, home-run means full sexual intercourse.

If you’re wondering why did you have to learn what are the bases in dating and why did the universal metaphor come down to baseball, well, just remember how the guy hitting the ball is called and you’ll get it.

Why We Describe Sex in Terms of Bases (And Why We Should Stop)

Even if you’ve never played a single minute of baseball in your life, there’s a decent chance you’ve used its terminology before. 

Phrases like “you’re in the big leagues now,” “that came out of left field” and “you knocked it out of the park” have made their way into North American lingo via the sport. While baseball terms often find themselves being used in our work lives, perhaps no baseball terminology has been more impactful than the notion of bases as metaphors for sexual intimacy. 

“I finally got to second base with her last night.“

“I think I’m going to get to third base any day now.“

But inserting a sports-related element when it comes to sex might imbue it with a little playfulness for some, if you dig a little deeper, it’s actually a deeply inaccurate (and potentially harmful) way of thinking about sex. 

In order to understand the relationship between sex and bases, and why we should probably stop using the bases model, AskMen spoke with three experts in sex, dating and relationships … and none about baseball. Here’s what they had to say:

What First, Second, Third and Home Base Represent

So what do the bases represent, exactly? As it turns out, in part because the bases system seems to have become a metaphor for sex in a somewhat impromptu way, it can vary significantly from person to person. 

However, at least two of the bases tend to be pretty well-defined. 

“First base and home base are pretty clear,” says Connell Barrett, a dating coach for The League. “Second and third bases are harder to define.” Let’s break them all down, shall we? 

Why Americans See Sex in Terms of Bases

 Even if you’re a lifelong baseball fan, you might be wondering the point in using bases when it comes to sex.

According to Barrett, “Meat Loaf’s 1977 hit song ‘Paradise by the Dashboard Light’ helped cement the baseball-as-sex metaphor.” 

“The narrator is trying to ‘go all the way’ in a car with his girlfriend while baseball announcer and ex-New York Yankee Phil Rizzuto calls the play-by-play,” he says. 

Other sources suggest the comparison goes back as far as the end of the Second World War, though given the way slang and regional dialects function, oral usage of the concept could predate the earliest recorded use by several years. Still, the question remains: What is it about baseball and sex, two seemingly unrelated activities, that has stuck so well in the cultural mindset as to last through all these decades? 

“Comparing stages of romantic escalation to running the bases makes for a simple, clear metaphor,” explains Barrett. “Everybody gets it — baseball is the national pastime.”

And the comparison doesn’t end at the base path, either. “In dating, we still say someone ‘struck out,’ meaning got rejected, or is a ‘switch-hitter,’ referring to bisexuality,” he adds. 

Additionally, the terms “pitcher” and “catcher” are sometimes used to denote the penetrating and penetrated partner in anal sex between gay men, with the phrase “playing the field” referring to someone who’s casually dating several people at once over a short period of time. 

It’s still worth asking why metaphors are required at all. To that point, there’s an even more compelling reason, but one that’s beginning to have less and less cultural currency. 

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“Its significance has roots in our puritan ancestry, wherein sex is considered a bad or taboo thing,” says Engle. “Because sex is such a taboo subject and no one knows how to talk about it, referring to it in these rudimentary terms makes it easier for people to cope and talk openly about it.”

Why Base-Based Sex Thinking Is Problematic

Along with the weirdness of using extremely old slang to describe and understand sex comes the reality that, by now, like a set of baseball bases themselves, the metaphor might be getting a little old, covered with dust and worn out from overuse. 

“Bases are really ridiculous and we should do away with them,” says Engle. “They put a hierarchy on different ‘sexual’ touching, which is an oversimplification of extremely nuanced human sexual behavior. There is no one thing that counts as sex, and there is no one form of sexual touching that is more valid or goes further than any other. Sex is natural, and all of it should be understood and done with care.” 

Categorizing something as complex as sex into “linear terms” like that, according to Engle, “leads to slut-shaming, toxic masculinity and a demonization of sexuality, when it is one of the most normal human functions we have.”

Does that mean we need to throw the entire set of bases out? According to Jor-El Caraballo, a relationship therapist and co-creator of Viva Wellness, it’s complicated … but we probably should.  

“I would like to think that [using baseball terms] came out of a desire to codify and better understand the stages of sexual intimacy,” says Caraballo. “Whether or not its origins were generally more wholesome, the idealogy does create a problematic dynamic between sex and play. While play in sex can be both healthy and exciting, when the ‘game’ hinges on men’s desire to always get to home base, it creates a problematic dynamic that’s hinged on proving problematic norms of masculinity.”

The upshot of that, in his mind, is a sort of tunnel vision, one that encourages guys to “forego developing a compassionate interaction with their partner at best, and [be] coercive or assaultive at worst.”

He also notes that it “robs men of the experience of potentially creating real fulfilling intimacy rather than just reaching a sexual goal.” 

That might sound dramatic, but there’s something to it — guys often belittle and mock other guys for not having “gone far enough” sexually. Even if it’s not strictly tied to the notion of bases, the conception of sex as being a game that you need to win to prove your own masculinity can become deeply entrenched pretty quickly in the minds of young men. 

“Rather than seeing sex as a game to ‘win’ in secret, we know that when people talk openly about sex and what they desire, it improves their sexual lives, particularly for men,” explains Caraballo, citing a 2010 study on the subject. “Instead of looking at sex as a few bases to cross, focus more on talking openly about what you desire and listening intentionally to what your partner wants.”

For what it’s worth, many young people today, whether it’s due to caring less about baseball or because they have a healthier understanding of intimacy and sex, seem to be rethinking the bases model. 

Third base: consistently hanging out for over 3 months and refusing to call it a relationship because both of you are terrified of commitment and communication

first base: textingsecond base: telling all ur friendsthird base: getting ghosted

Agreeing to switch from a dating app to texting is the new first base. Second base is agreeing to meetup. Third base is probably like fisting idk i dont understand my generation anymore.

Search “first base” and “second base” on Twitter, and you’ll likely be able to find viral tweets like the ones above, mocking the absurdity of sexual bases … by replacing them with another, more contemporary absurdity: the ins and outs of modern dating in the hookup-culture era. 

Baseball is boring. So, if you’re hoping to read about those bases, you’ve come to the wrong place. It’s all about the sexual bases we’re interested in.

There’s actually an interesting story behind baseball terminology being used to describe sexual bases. You’ve heard this before, everyone has. It was coined in America to use baseball metaphors in order to describe the levels of intimacy relationships go through. I mean, these aren’t newly discovered either.

Billy Joel, Meatloaf—maybe they’re too old for you, but these are classic artists from the seventies and eighties. So, you see where I’m going with that? Baseball metaphors have been around for a long time. And it doesn’t end there, sexual education instructors even use these metaphors when talking about sex to their students. They’ve become a part of sexual life.

Even I’ve used bases to describe how far I went with a guy. Usually, after sex, you tend just to say that instead. But until then, you use the sexual bases. I mean, first, your parents aren’t going to catch on right away if you say “third base” to your friend in front of them. So, it’s a good way to speak in code in front of people without describing what actually happened.

We all know what happened on second or third base, right? Well, if you’re reading this then maybe you need to freshen up on the definitions of sexual bases. You need to know this.

#1 First base. Everyone loves getting to first base. It’s the base that gives you hope, the base that makes you push forward, waiting to touch second. First base is kissing, a lot of kissing. Your hands aren’t touching major erogenous zones, you two are in the moment of just warming each other up with your mouths. [Read: How to kiss passionately and romantically]

#2 Second base. To go through and experience second base is a beautiful thing. It’s sweet, a little dirty, but clean fun. There’s skin-to-skin touching and kissing, grabbing or kissing the breasts, and heavy petting around the erogenous zones such as the genitals, ass, breasts, and neck. Though this is done above clothing, in second base you’re not nude. [Read: 20 tips for make out mastery]

#3 Third base. Now third base is when you’re on the edge of sex. Traditionally, it means there’s touching below the waist without having sex. However, it’s been updated a bit. Third base now refers to oral sex–blowjobs, cunnilingus, fingering–that’s all third base. 

#4 Home run. In baseball, to hit a home run means you hit all the bases, making a full circle, and got some points for your team. Well, this is basically the same thing for sex. You hit every base and then you have full-on sex. Congratulations, you scored the winning point. What all baseball players aim to do. [Read: 16 pop culture sex terms you need to know by now]

#5 Strikeout. Now, you may hear some guys say this after an unsuccessful night at the club. They’ll say, “Nah, man, I struck out.” What does that even mean? Well, in short, they didn’t get laid. To “strike out” means they failed in having any sort of sexual encounter. It doesn’t have to mean full-on sex, it also means they didn’t even speak to a girl or engage in foreplay.

#6 Pitching. This term is specific to gay guys and means that if you’re pitching, you’re the man who performs anal sex. It’s similar to the whole “pin and cushion” reference. Being a “pin” means you’re the giver while the “cushion” is the receiver.

#7 Catching. This is another term that’s specific to gay guys when talking about the roles they take on while having anal sex. A catcher is someone who catches the ball, right? So basically, a catch in sex means that he’s the man receiving anal sex. [Read: What you need to know about each sexual orientation]

#8 Switch hitter. This is another term used for someone who’s bisexual. I have to admit, I’ve never used it before, so I don’t think it’s overly popular but it’s still a baseball metaphor. Now that you know what it means, if you hear it, you’ll make the connection right away. Switch hitter literally means a player that bats from either their left or right side. Makes sense now, right?

#9 Playing for the other team. Now, if someone is gay or lesbian, you’ll be able to say that they’re “playing/batting for the other team.” It simply means they’re homosexual. The only sad thing about these baseball terms is that they haven’t been updated. What about the rest of the LGBTQ community? Back in the 60s when these terms were first created, being gay or lesbian was very “rare” and seen as unusual. 

#10 Playing for both teams. If someone is “playing for both teams” this means that you say this person is bisexual. If you think about it quickly it makes sense. They’re going from their own team to the opposing team. Though these terms were created in the 60s, they’re actually still highly used today. I mean, I say these phrases all the time. You can also say, “batting for both teams.” [Read: All the ways to tell the difference between a pansexual and a bisexual]

 #11 Running the bases. You usually won’t be using this unless you talk about someone younger than you who’s experimenting with sex and intimacy. “Running the bases” means that someone is experimenting with sexual relationships. So, they may be sleeping with other people, trying different things. You can also say, “playing on the field” or “testing out bases.”

[Read: 4 relationship bases of making out and important sex metaphors to know]

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Hiermit wird das geändert. Ein Videochat ist die optimale Möglichkeit, einfach und bequem den passenden Partner zu finden. Man könnte es als das deutsche Chatroulette ansehen. Dieses Live Chatroulette ist ein Zufalls-Chat auf deutsch, der es den Usern ermöglicht, fremde Menschen schnell und bequem über die Dating-Seite zu finden.

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Ist Speed-Dating nicht auch eine gute Alternative?

Beim Speed-Dating geht oft die Intimität verloren und am Ende des Abends geht man mit ein paar Lachern alleine nach Hause und kann im Nachhinein auch nicht selten frustriert auf die lange Partnersuche zurückschauen. Wie hoch ist die Chance unter so wenigen anwesenden Personen, die richtige Person zu finden? Richtig, diese Chance ist sehr gering.

Was benotigt man, um am Chatroulett teilzunehmen?

Das Speed-Dating mag zwar auch Vorteile haben, unter dem Strich ist der Zugriff auf tausende verschiedene Profile mit einem Mausklick jedoch wesentlich komfortabler. Wenn eine Situation unangenehm erscheint, wird man vom Mausklick gerettet. Aufregend bleibt es dennoch, denn man weiß nie, wer die nächste Person ist, auf die man treffen könnte.

Was benötigt man, um am Videochat teilzunehmen?

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Unlike many other gay dating sites, only allows you to sign up as a homosexual man — couples, bisexual, or bi-curious users are not allowed. There is no information on the site about its audience size, but by some estimates, there are no more than 500,000 GaysGoDating users.

A significant part of the members of the site are men between 25 and 34, but there are also plenty of older users and a small percentage of guys under 25. When signing up for GaysGoDating, you can choose your gay tribe, so there are a lot of singles on the site who consider themselves to be bears, twinks, geeks, and other types of gay men.

Signing Up at GaysGoDating

Upon your first visit to , you can learn some facts about the site and check out its related dating services, but you cannot see any of the members without creating your own account. Signing up for GaysGoDating is not the most complex process, but it does require you to go through several steps.

First, you will need to fill out a few fields about your age, location, and email address. The next step is confirming your registration by following a link from your email. Finally, you will be asked to upload a profile photo and answer a few more questions about your physical parameters. Once it’s all done, you can begin exploring

Design and Usability

is a carbon copy of several other gay dating sites, so if you have ever used any of the members of Together Networks, you will have no problem navigating GaysGoDating even as a beginner. Plus, the site has a very simple and convenient layout with no excessive features or distracting banners.

The main menu of is located on the very top of the screen. From right to left, you will find your profile controls, messages, notifications, and a button for upgrading your account. Then there is a Like Gallery, which displays you random profiles and allows you to vote yes or no on them, as well as visit the profiles of users who caught your attention. And finally, you can visit the site’s search feature, where you can look for other members using only a few criteria like their age and location.

User Account Features

The profiles at Gays Go Dating don’t contain a lot of details, but many users have nearly empty profiles due to skipping some or all of the fields when creating their accounts. From a typical user account on GaysGoDating, you can learn the person’s age, location, physical features, and smoking and drinking habits, while the essential “Looking For” section of the profile is only available to paying users. Most members of have at least one profile photo, and even if they have more pics in their accounts, you cannot view them as a free member.

Gays Go Dating does not offer a lot of ways to contact the members you want to get to know better. The only two available contact options are sending a chat message or a Like. You can also add the profile to your favorites, block it from viewing and messaging you, or report it to the site moderators if you consider it to be fraudulent.

GaysGoDating Prices

GaysGoDating has a rather standard approach to providing its services: you can access a few features such as creating your account and viewing profiles for free, but you need a paid membership for everything else. has just one option for paying users, which is a Full membership. As a Full member, you will get access to unlimited messaging, full-size photos of other members, a more detailed search, and other features.

You can opt for a Full membership for 1 day if you just want to take a look or commit to 3 months if you think there is a real possibility of meeting that special someone on Gays Go Dating. You will need to pay from $1 for 1 day to $45.44 for 3 months, which is slightly higher than the average market price of a premium membership on a dating site.

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Is GaysGoDating a scam?

GaysGoDating itself is not a scam, as there are thousands of users who are really looking for their ideal partner. However, during our time on the site, we have encountered many profiles that looked very fake and started receiving lots of messages from other users of the site immediately after signing up. To us, these things are certainly a sign of scam activity. 

Is GaysGoDating safe?

There have been no reports of GaysGoDating data breaches or other security problems. The site has a brief section on the safety of online dating and a Help section that details some of the most common problems you may have with However, we would like the service to introduce more ways to contact customer support — right now, you can only do it via a contact form on the site.

Does GaysGoDating have a mobile app?

There is no GaysGoDating mobile app that you can download to your phone or tablet, but there is a mobile version of the site that you can open in your smartphone’s browser. The mobile version of shares a lot of features with the desktop site, but due to the differences in the screen size, may not be as convenient.

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The fact is that every person has heard a high schooler brag about his romantic conquest with the lines like “yeah, I totally went to second base with Michelle last you, you know it, ha-ha”: high fives his friend. Everyone’s heard it when they were in high school, or they were eavesdropping high schoolers to see how the newer generations have faltered, or at least in a movie. But since you Googled “what are the bases in dating” you must either be a non-US citizen or eight years old, in which case you should be quick as your older brother might get into the room and you’ll have to endure years of getting made fun of brutally for this search. And also, this is too adult for you, leave.

But in case you’re not from the North American continent or Japan and have the luck of not knowing anything about baseball, this terminology can be too confusing and you end up knowing only that something sexual happened between two people. Which isn’t enough.

Baseball is a deeply complicated game with a lot of “ifs” and “but ifs” so it cannot be explained in great detail here, nor is that why you are here for. But you need to know some rules of this sport so you can understand the metaphor. In the shortest terms, baseball is a game in which a person with the bat, called the batter, needs to hit the ball thrown at him by the opponent and then claim the bases spread around the pitch in succession. The three bases and the place where the batter is standing while hitting the ball (home plate) make for a rhomboid (see the picture), and the claiming is done by touching the bases which are represented by white squares.

So from the home plate, the batter needs to claim the first base first by touching it, then the second, then the third before the opponents do the same by getting the ball there. If the batter returns all the way to the home plate that is called a home-run, which is also a sexual metaphor we will get to later. That is only scraping the rules of baseball, which doesn’t look as complicated as it is, but it is enough for our needs.

So, getting bases are good, the higher the base you claim the closer you are to your goal of achieving a home-run.