What is a gay flamer?

I keep hearing this term „Flamer“ every time I’m on Y/A and I don’t know what Flamers looks like and how they act? I know there gay but I don’t know how they would look like? Are they feminine? Masculine? ? ? ?

What are some subtle ways of showing others that you are gay without coming off as a flamer?

Just being yourself. Why do you need to publicize that you’re gay?

I wear a rainbow wristband. Got a pack of them off Amazon.

Most people trying not to come off as flamers ARE flamers without even realizing it but who cares if people think you come off as a flamer?? Let your freak flag fly. Get yourself a man. You need to find yourself a husband who you can settle down with, lil buddy!

I wouldn’t judge you for it. Nobody in the gay community would. That’s what makes it so great. You can just be you without having to tiptoe around the issue or trying to explain yourself to everybody who doesn’t understand. Gay people don’t care if you’re are too!

Yeah, I’m doing a grumpy cat face at the „flamer“ word in OP’s post

Ok. My answer wasn’t helpful. It is hard to be gay but not be GAY. I have some pride t-shirts that I wear. I have some rainbow tie dyed rainbow sandals that are subtly gay. I use male pronouns when talking about dates just little things. I like the rainbow tattoo idea that someone suggested too.

If they like you, they won’t gravitate towards you because they’d know you’re gay. Be fun and social, make lots of friends, and you’ll eventually run into other gays. From there on it’s just playing your cards wisely and, hopefully, picking up the subtle clues that they’re interested in you (tricky, but fun nonetheless). Source: another gay dude living in a very straight world.

• listen to “gay” music (Lady Gaga, Ariana Grande, Kim Petras, Dua Lipa, Nicki Minaj, Lana Del Rey, etc…)

What are some subtle ways of showing others that you are gay without coming off as a flamer?

As nouns the difference between gay and flamer

 As nouns the difference between gay and flamer

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It is an effeminate acting gay man. A straight acting gay man is not a flamer. A flamer would be someone that has the stereotypical gay accent, the strut, who dresses a little effeminately and may even be trans.

The ones who seem to go out of their way to embody every stereotype of gay men in existence. An identifying trait is that you can hear their (fake) „gay voices“ before you can see them coming.

itsa gay guy who is really feminine and flamboyant 🙂 theyre funny and awesome pretty much lol

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